ok...my boyfriend has a myspace page..(i cant stand it) i have told him he needs to delete it cuz i feel like he could go behind my back and talk to other girls on there..he says he is gonna delete it but lately it has been all talk and no action..i have explained to him how i feel and he has agreed many times totake it down..but he still hasnt done it...whenever i ask him its like "o ill do it when i get around to doing it type of thing" and i know he is just putting me off...we have been together for almost 2 yrs and i feel like there is no possible reason that he would need to have one..he says if i keep bugging him about it then he wont delete it...but the thing is i wouldnt have to bug him about it if he would just do it...right? ugh this is really pissing me off...and im not trying to be controlling...but i dont know that mightbe how he is taking it..girls i want your advice...fellas what do you think my man is thinking ?
2006-08-27 14:14:05 · 9 answers · asked by kelkel0514 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
by the way i saw comments from other girls like a long time ago sayin that they think my bf is sexy and all this sh*it and now he has his page to private cuz he says he doesnt want me gettin mad over nothing.. siggggggh...im pretty confused loved ones...
2006-08-27 14:15:14 · update #1
It sounds like time for action. What are you prepared to do to cause a change? You know what you "can" do...I would take the step and find out if he's playing you...
2006-08-27 14:19:05 · answer #1 · answered by westgaliberty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't have anything to hide from you, his page wouldn't be private.
The two of you should compromise. Tell him if he isn't hiding anything that he can keep his Myspace if you can have the password and review which comments you will allow and which ones you wont & also which friends can be accepted and which need to be deleted or deny upon request; this way you can kind of monitor him in away. After all, you two have been together for 2 years.
I have a Myspace page and a lot of my male friends have completely innappropriate comments from females that don't even know them (thankfully my boyfriend doesn't follow the myspace trend).
2006-08-27 21:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do you have any reason not to trust him in the first place ? the thing that is concerning is that he agreed and has yet to get rid of it ,,he may be doing it now thinking he wont allow you to tell him what to do ,,his way of keeping the control ,,, most men of course make there minds up to do things when there ready to do it ,,so maybe back off let him make the right choice ,,let him show you if he really respects your feelings ,,,if he chooses not to get rid of it soon knowing your unhappy,well then i would question it !,,be patient give him space with this let him decide ,,your feelings or what he wants ,,
2006-08-27 21:28:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, if your b/f has not taken down his space, then why don't you get a space of your own and see how he likes it. If he bugs you about having it up tell him that you are going to take it down whenever you get around to it, then see how he likes it. OF COURSE you know that this may cause you more trouble in your relationship, but if he is not willing to please you by removing his space then chances are he is talking to other women and not worth you love or time. Wish you the best of luck!
2006-08-27 23:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by Archangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trolling. He's keeping his options open. The fact that he put it on "private" or whatever, shows that he isn't about to take it down.
I would break it off with him. This is a trust issue and he is not being respectful of your wishes here. Let him go. Let him go see how green the grass is on the other side.
2006-08-27 21:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's playing you, he does not respect you, dump the turd. Find someone that will accept you and respect your wishes. The world is full of guys that are much nicer than this guy you're after. Let him go, he just wants to find more girls so he can brag to his friends that he has a bunch of chicks on his string.
2006-08-27 21:36:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically you're insecure. you bf an ***, for telling you he will take it down, not for having it. he likes the attention. he doesn't know how to be satisfied with one girls attention. time to move. you have feelings for him....ooohhh how sad and confusing. c'mon get a grip... there are a lot of guys out there and you need to be alone. no one needs someone else, if you think you do, they you have issues.
2006-08-27 21:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him now. If he's doing this with your knowledge imagine what he's doing behind your back.
2006-08-27 21:31:39 · answer #8 · answered by Credit Expert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-27 21:21:28 · answer #9 · answered by wizard 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋