I have a hard time socializing since I got into middle school. i think it was because I was fat and had messed up teeth. But now i am 17 and going to be a senior this september. I lost weight now and i got braces that took care of my teeth. But i find it hard to be with a friend. I have no brothers or sisters. My parents owned a restaurant and so they work all the time. I am always alone all the time. I have good grades 4.12 GPA weighted and 3.7 unweighted. Any solutions out there for me to change or do something?
2006-08-27 14:05:25 · 7 answers · asked by avalentin911 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Try joining a club or a team at school. This is a sure fire way to make new friends. Also try going to parties and school gatherings.
2006-08-27 14:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by UVRay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe get a job, that is a good way to make friends. Also, start talking to people all around you. Just say hi, how are you, etc. Ask other people questions about themselves and they will instantly start talking to you and you can get to know them. Ask people in your classes if they want to get together and study. Find out where some parties are and go to them and meet people. Just be nice to people and they will (hopefully) be nice back and realize what a great person you are. Also, high school in general tends to suck so keep your chin up, if you go to college, things will be much better!
2006-08-27 21:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by jjdanca18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The heck with people, I know it sounds rough and its probally already something you know of too well. You are about to senior and the hell is soon to cease, amuse yourself with a kick *** stategy to get into college, do not be tempted by our cruel universes temptaions, like sex and drugs and yes, fitting in. bank as much money as possible, that will not be the only car you drive.... GO TO CHURCH, if in doubt thank God for a superior mentality and the strength that you know have from dealing with crappy people who care about wieght and tooth alignment. And that is my advice, spoken as though it were yesterday, from a twenty year old single mom , of a beautiful three year old, and all the scars the world can whip one with. Take Care, and Stand with ALLL THE PRIDE YOU CAN MUSTERl....Eventually it will pay off.
2006-08-27 21:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by edi_z_willo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have to force yourself to be more outgoing. Join a club after school or a sport. Try to find someone as shy as you and start a conversation. You can do it. Just believe in yourself. Good Luck
2006-08-27 21:11:36 · answer #4 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide if you want to belong to a particular group of freinds, or want to have people who you call freinds from all walks of life...if you just want freinds..join some group...but that may lead you down a path....otherwise just be yourself and be freindly and people who like you will respond...and then freindship will begin.
Brock.48
2006-08-27 21:22:29 · answer #5 · answered by cbmaclean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join a club at your school to meet other kids with the same interest as you
2006-08-27 21:09:52 · answer #6 · answered by Diana K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop talking about yourself... why dont you find out your interests and seek people with the same.
you're full of crap.
2006-08-27 23:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋