my little 7 year old sister is the most annoying little thing...she hits me and calls me names non stop, it doesnt hurt my feeling it just pisses me off, and all she get is a lil "dont do that again" but when i even tell her to shut up i get "WHAT THE *** SHES A LITTLE GIRL LEAVE HER ALONE SHE DOESNT KNOW ANY BETTER THAN TO HIT YOU YOUR OLDER THAN HER GROW UP" what the hell...what should i do?
2006-08-27 13:59:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
OK I'm a little sister and first f all, I'm sorry I know how annoying we can be but secondly, I would suggest hanging out with her more, if you make her feel like she doesn't have keep kicking you for your attention, like if you just hang out in your room together, she won't bug you as often. She looks up to you and is jealous of the fact that you're so much more mature than her and takes it out on you by hitting and name calling, trust me I did it ALL THE TIME!! So if you perhaps make her feel like more of your friend than your annoying little sister she'll be kinder too!
2006-08-27 14:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by Ana Banana 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like your mother is some kind of person. I am so proud of her and the language she uses to talk to you. No wonder your little sister is the way she is.
Now in most cases little sisters idealizes big sisters. Like they are more mature and more grown up. Your little sister is more immature than you are. She also sounds like she is trying to get your attention and the only way she can do that is to annoy you. She sounds like she is very lonely and wants someone in the family to recognize that she is getting older and smarter. Your mother doesn't seem to understand that yet. So in her way she is asking for your help.
Now you can spend a little more time with her, help her with things that you know about, invite her in your room and just talk to her. It will not be easy as she has a pattern in her behavior but if you can just take some time with her and be her friend ... you will enjoy a real life time of close sistership that will make both of you very happy.
Good Luck
2006-08-27 21:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by NIck N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds quite annoying to me as well. It appears that the people who tell you to leave her alone are your parents. They need to take some real responsibility in caring for your sister, they can't assume that she doesn't know some right from wrong. This can look like a case of neglect and indifference, mild as it may be. However, neglect can be devastating for a young girl, she may be doing this for attention from her parents. If she is neglected and is not receiving the attention that she needs, these "fights" you two get into will be nothing in the near future. There are a lot of people, who, when neglected severely, can develop Borderline Personality Disorder. Go ahead and read about it sometime (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders 4th edition Text Revision), it is not fun trying to deal with someone like that (I know, I provide therapy for a number of people with that diagnosis).
2006-08-27 21:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by deepthinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Children in that age are not capable for having comprehensive hatred, but it sounds as if she is excersizing her frusration aggression in play fighting with you, pretending she is your equal so she may decrease her anxieties, her fears. Try helping her with that and other social sister activities. It would do much to increase the family bond between the two of you as sisters. Say 'that hurts, you are too strong for me' and 'hitting is not a good girl thing to do' or may be you know the proper english way of saying the same, whatever, it must said. Communicating is a value too much to live not having it. Defend yourself with a pillow or something and help her excersize. Someday she may actually need to fight.
2006-08-27 21:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by Psyengine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids like to be annoying, but they only get a kick out of it because they know it bothers you. Try completely ignoring her, or telling your parents how much it's really bothering you. Maybe now they're just giving a weak rebuke because they don't realize just how much it really is bothering you. But the best remedy is usually ignore them, it will be hard and it will take time. After a while of your not reacting to her pestering she'll get bored and stop. Good luck.
2006-08-27 21:10:49 · answer #5 · answered by Vanessa E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she needs to be taught a lesson. Who ever yells at you for it is wrong when they are saying that she doesn't know any better. She is 7 years old and she understands a lot more than people think. I think your parents need to put their foot down and be the parent and teach her some respect.
2006-08-27 21:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by Brandy U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is a) shes little. its her job. dont call her names or be mean. simply say "if you keep this up, I won't like you anymore, little sis." she mite have a snooty comment but in the long run i assure you this will work
2006-08-27 23:35:32 · answer #7 · answered by renthead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows what she's doin...sit down with your parents and talk to them maturely, they m ay see your point and discipline in better ways
2006-08-27 21:29:12 · answer #8 · answered by Snuz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. That happens to me sometimes. I find demolishing my bro's bedroom quite amusing
2006-08-27 21:04:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find an anger release like karate or kickboxing or working out and do this as often as you can... and try not to let her get on your nerves, she WILL outgrow it trust me!!! best of luck!!!
2006-08-27 21:06:48 · answer #10 · answered by Lana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋