When I'm around people it seems like they get mad when I make a mistake or make me feel bad if I don't know something. Everyone makes mistakes and there is always something people don't know. So, what's the big deal? Please help!!!
2006-08-27 13:50:22 · 11 answers · asked by ILovePizza 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
You have to learn to let it roll off your back. FAKE IT until you make it. ACT like it doesn't bother you. If people are doing it to upset you, and it doesnt seem to be working, they will stop doing it. Usually though, people are doing it to make themselves feel better. In either case, if you can learn to not care what other people think, you will be much happier. I know it is easier said than done, but give it a try. Always consider the source too. What do THEY know?
2006-08-27 14:15:31 · answer #1 · answered by some chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of idiots in the world and they don't want to admit they make mistakes too. Instead of uplifting you and saying everything is ok they rather put you down. It's a cruel world out there. When you make a mistake just brush it off move on with your life. How else will you learn if you don't make mistakes?
2006-08-27 20:59:20 · answer #2 · answered by J P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are insecure and when you make a mistake they want to point it out so that way it makes them feel smarter for a minute, don't feel bad, though, like you say we all make mistakes, that is how we learn. Peace.
2006-08-31 22:17:17 · answer #3 · answered by spiritcavegrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one should make any1 else feel bad cuz they don't know something or make a mistake cuz NO ONE is perfect and they will make a mistake at some point, too. But, maybe it's your demeanor. If you seem kinda ditzy or unsure of yourself they'll feed on that energy and use it as incentive to make you feel bad. Or, maybe they're just @ssh0les.
2006-08-27 21:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by Inquizitiv1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because the same has been done to them or they are just gerks. Next time, remind them that no one is perfect and it is very normal to make mistakes. It's not like they don't make mistakes as well.
2006-08-27 20:55:21 · answer #5 · answered by UVRay 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it aint ur fault people just like to pressurising other people like you into situations then make u feel bad its anxiety once u realise it aint ur fault u made a mistake u will learn and become stronger and feel more in controll of the situation next time dont let other people get to u
2006-08-27 20:58:17 · answer #6 · answered by nuangel14 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't sweat it.I think you may need to get thicker skin though, because people can be very mean and hateful for no reason ( as you can see by looking through this site)..Keep your head up.
2006-08-27 20:57:00 · answer #7 · answered by soulsista 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only a moron would do this, it's not proper behavior to put down a person because they don't know something.
Remember...when folks do this to you...they don't know everything themselves. It's also just damn immature!
2006-08-27 20:58:59 · answer #8 · answered by Ivyvine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really shallow....its called pride...they are proud that they know something someone else doesnt. it makes them feel good. not saying you have but most people think that gloating makes them feel good....i'll admitt that i do it...most people do...
2006-08-27 20:54:50 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They remember their own foolishness
2006-08-27 20:54:04 · answer #10 · answered by unisoul 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋