2006-08-27 13:45:27 · 14 answers · asked by lady peach 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WARNING SIGNALS BLARING!!
how you respond to his treating you rudely will teach him how he can treat you.
non-chalantly tell him you simply won't tolerate being talked to harshly (or however he is treating you), tell him to call you when he can be mature, and walk away.
If he doesn't respond in a short time, with a mature apology, then walk away and keep walking.
Ann Landers always said that you teach people how to treat you. Don't put up with it, don't throw a fit or a pity party.
2006-08-27 13:49:22 · answer #1 · answered by talentfree 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, sit him down and tell him to let u be you for a while, vice versa. You should go off with the girls or yourself on a mini vacation and let him chase you. Don't call him let him call you and take it from there. If he calls you its a sign that he cares and misses you. That's a good sign too...talk to him a little see what he wants then tell him you have to go and tell him you'll will talk later. In that way it wont seem like you are going to call him later, but he will call you. Now, from here continue your alone time. When your finish call him and ask did you miss me. Then, go home and see whats up with him, hopefully he has changed. If he hasn't treated you better maybe you should move out if you all live together and aren't married...for about at least a month. Then, see if he really loves you he will ask you to come home, like when people say"if you love something you have got to let it go, and if it comes back it was meant to be"...put that to the test. If you all get back together see how he treats you hopefully its way better than before and you all hit it off. If not you all should go your own ways, because obviously he isn't helping you get to where you need to be in life and he is only holding you back from fulfilling you dreams and achieving your long term goals.
2006-08-27 21:01:04 · answer #2 · answered by respectedfemale2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. Talk to him. Could be something you did, maybe even something you said that he took completely the wrong way (I had a boyfriend who used to do that; made me nuts. lol), it could be you're just spending too much time together. My husband and I get on each other's nerves on occassion. And it's very normal. It could be he's just stressed, in which it might not be you at all, might be everything period, you know? My husband gets really testy when he's stressed and the first thing he wants is to be left alone, so he tends to shut me out, but I think he does it so that he doesn't end up taking it out on me. I'd give him some space, do your own thing for a while. Chances are he'll come around.
2006-08-27 20:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he's not necessarily cheating. There's just something else wrong, like falling out of love. When that happens sometimes everything about the other one aggrivates each of you. It means dissatisfaction. How serious it is depends on a lot, which I don't know. Sounds bad though. Are you stuck for some reason? Do you have somewhere to go? Do it if you can. Not all of us can. Try not to be stuck. Good luck.
2006-08-27 20:56:21 · answer #4 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend some time apart. If you are with someone all the time and no one else you can start to wear on each others nerves. Don't give up on the relationship. Step back take a breather. This does not mean feel free to have sex with other people, it just means spend a few days apart.
2006-08-27 21:16:28 · answer #5 · answered by mrsmay28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me, I left him after 21/2 year of marriage, When I couldn't take it any longer, I decided to leave him, and return to my beautiful island....Good Riddance..
2006-08-27 21:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by racheljackson54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like hes trying to find reasons to be upset with you. Ask him about it in a loving way and see what he says. He could have ideas of straying.....
2006-08-27 20:54:02 · answer #7 · answered by scarlett11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get used to it, generally speaking men and women in a relationship do not communicate well.
2006-08-27 20:49:11 · answer #8 · answered by steph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out for sure if he is cheating on you. What you are saying is one of the signs. Another sign is that he is withholding sex with you as well.
2006-08-27 20:49:48 · answer #9 · answered by Credit Expert 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what can you do/ if he won't tell you ,i guess you will draw your own conclusions.but usually that spells endings so put your foot down and demand some answers,but be ready for whatever it may be.
2006-08-27 20:49:35 · answer #10 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋