My wife read an article in Essence about men's trips to Brazil. The article talked about how great women treat men in Brazil. They cater to them, cook, make them feel special, give them great, erotic sex - 2 girls, 3 girls, whatever and they are 10's / beautiful. My wife said, hey you and some of your friends should go. She said that could be an annual trip as long as she does not find out. What does this mean? If a wife truly loved her husband, would she suggest this?
2006-08-27 13:38:47 · 27 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
See the article in Essence with Beyonce on the cover.....
2006-08-28 02:44:30 · update #1
she's testing you-
go ahead do it, and all of your clothes will be on the curb when you get home ..
so, stop thinking with your penis!
2006-08-27 13:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by Daughtry-luver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man, how long have you been alive with a lady..... this is a tricky suggestion, she said, ITS OK IF I DONT FIND OUT.... do you think you can keep it hidden from her till the end of your days ? once you do it, she is going to find out sooner or later....so, by then it will NOT be OKcos she found out! get what I mean? Dont ever trust a lady if they say its OK to these fedelity related things, its never ok.
so, you might as well be loyal and stay put. trust me, I learnt from it the hard way. Dont ever try if you still love her and still want to be with her...OK?
2006-08-27 20:54:57 · answer #2 · answered by condon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is crazy. there is no way in hell i would let another woman touch my husband. or maybe she just thinks that she doesn't' satisfy u and to compensate she says u can be with one drop dead gorgeous woman a year as long as she doesn't find out and u stay with her. then everything still "looks" good. if u really love her u will tell her that u don't want anyone other than her and u don't care what they do in Brazil she is what makes u truly happy, tell her she is everything u need and more than u ever wanted
2006-08-27 20:45:14 · answer #3 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, for me, she just gave you permission. If you want to go, then go. If not, then don't go. The problem may be the caveot about not letting her find out. Not sure how you'd do that. So maybe that means she won't care if you don't tell her. But if she finds out, she reserves the right to get pissed.
So on second thought, she's trying to trick you.
2006-08-27 21:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by Say it like it is 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is tired of having sex with you, is probably menopausal and if you come home and resume the relationship with her, such as it is, she does not care where you stick it, so long as you are far away and you don't talk about it when you get back.
Oh, wait, sorry, that was me I was speaking of. I suspect your wife may feel the same. Not that we don't love you guys, but once the ovaries are gone.....we are like camels, can go without it for just EVER.
2006-08-27 20:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by finaldx 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you were to take her up on this proposition, it would leave the door wide open for her to also go explore other men. Then she could have the excuse, "well, you went to Brazil and blah, blah, blah". Why don't you ask her why she herself can't pretend she's one of these girls and give you great exotic sex?
2006-08-27 20:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by windandwater 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOUR WIFE IS BEING COMPLETY HONEST WITH U WHAT SHE MEANS IS WHATEVER U DO JUST DONT LET HER FIND OUT AS LONG AS U TAKE CARE OF HOME AND YOUR RESPONSIBILITIES BASICALLY IT DOESNT MATTER HAVE U EVER HEARD THE SAYING WHAT SHE DONT KNOW WONT HURT HER BUT IF U FEEL U DONT NEED OR HAVE TO CHEAT ON YOUR WIFE THEN THAT S COOL SHE S JUST SAYING IF U HAVE OR EV ER THOUGHT ABOUT IT JUST DONT LET HER FIND OUT NOW WHEN AND HOW SHE DOES FIND OUT IS A DIFFERENT STORY
2006-08-27 20:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by MISS THANG 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hope for your sake you are not serious. No wife in her right mind would suggest such a thing to her husband. You two have some serious issues to talk about.
2006-08-27 20:42:50 · answer #8 · answered by orionsgirl76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no she wants to see if u will go for it so she can do the same or if she has not already done it maybe she wants to be a swinger, i mean there is no way im going to encourage my husband to go for it, and i do everything he wants me to yes carter cook, get this n that kind of deal but h to the no, she has different plans.... watch her she might be creeping out on u or trying to get around she needs to be watched
2006-08-27 20:47:19 · answer #9 · answered by 1plum 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It just means that shes comfortable with you. She expects you to come home to her. Either that or she's trying to absolve herself from some wrong doing. My advice, call a private investigator and a travel agent. Either way you're probably gonna get ******.
2006-08-27 20:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by A NEW BREED OF HATE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because she has someone at home she wants to spend time with while you are gone.
Been there, done that. Would send my ex camping for weekends so I could hang out with someone here.
2006-08-27 20:42:26 · answer #11 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋