Whenever I see women who are dressed up, I automatically look down to see what their foot wear looks like. If they have really nice looking shoes, I usually compliment them. But I tend to keep looking & admiring them...secretly, mind you. I don't like all shoes, just the stringy open toe high heels "sexy" shoes. I think women look so *HOTT!* wearing them.
Do you think this weird, perverted or anything taboo? I want to know how the average female feels about a guy admiring the shoes they're wearing? Don't get me wrong, I'm not "in love" with the shoes...in any kind of sick, unnatural way.
2006-08-27 13:21:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
I'm glad I have the option to edit my explanation.
I'm not interested in "feet" (clean or dirty) and I don't have a "sexual fetish" for the shoe(s). I don't think about the shoe itself. It's just an object of clothing. I just admire a woman who looks sharply dressed in a nice looking pair of this certain style of shoes.
I also happen to like women in hats...but not as much as shoes.
Thank you all for the polite and positive feedback.
2006-08-27 14:26:27 · update #1
My guy is a leg man that loves stockings and sexy heels! So yeah he has a thing for women's shoes as well and I think it's hot!
I could take him shoe shopping with me lol and he has a firm opinion on what he does and doesn't like in a woman's shoes.
For the women that have an issue with it...don't you realize that a lot of famous shoe designers are men..do you think it's weird that male fashion designers make dresses too? There is nothing wrong with a man having an eye for beautiful design and since men enjoy the beauty of a woman..why would they not appreciate her in an attractive sexy pair of shoes? Get real!
There is nothing wrong with you and like that other person said ..stay away from women that have a problem with a man liking heels..her flat sexless shoes could be a huge turn off for you. haha
2006-08-27 13:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by xanadu88 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm like you, but for me I'm not so much into the open toe look (although it's ok), just the closed-toe, high-heel stiletto look. I also like the strappy high-heels too, with the laces that tie up around the ankle or higher.
When I see well-dressed women I look at their shoes too and I think it just makes their whole outfit complete. Whenever I hear the "clack, clack, clack" sound of heels hitting the floor, I look to see who is wearing the shoes and what they look like. I get turned off by clogs or platform shoes. I think they lack style. I get turned on just by seeing sexy high-heels. I'm so lucky that my girlfriend loves shoes like I do and doesn't think that there is anything wrong about it. There are usenet groups (also accessible through google groups) for men that love high heels, if you didn't know about them already.
There are alot of guys out there who admire women's shoes. I don't think there is anything perverted or sick about it.
2006-08-27 13:38:24 · answer #2 · answered by Trader 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're not weird or a pervert, at least not from what you've said in your question. We all have our particular things that really get us going. Now, if you can only have sex with a woman if she's wearing heels or if you prance around in them at home yourself or use the high heels in self gratification, then you may have crossed into pervertdom. But even if those things are true, it's not hurting anybody else, so enjoy yourself.
2006-08-27 13:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only considered a fetish if the only way you can achieve orgasm is by either being in physical contact with the catalyst or thinking about it. In other words, do you jerk off whilst holding a pair of ladies shoes, or just think about them?
2006-08-27 13:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by Desiree J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is actually quite normal for a guy. The tough part is finding a woman that has an equal fetish for guys that love womens feet. Stay away from bitches like that "just curious" poster. ok??
she is shallow and judgemental.
tom
2006-08-27 13:25:06 · answer #5 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I see no longer something unusual approximately your shoe fetish. seems your spouse indulges you. it somewhat is astonishing. Human sexuality is different and the 'glue' that holds relationships together. each and every couple has their own 'dance' and yours incorporates shoes. God bless the two certainly one of you.
2016-09-30 01:42:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No women should wear nice shoes not wing tips like men.
2006-08-27 13:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this is a shoe fetish.
It is a pretty common thing. You are not sick, weird or perverted.
2006-08-27 13:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by Hermit 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow- I never thought that guys cared that much about shoes. I guess I should pay better attention to my footwear.
2006-08-27 13:27:09 · answer #9 · answered by M N 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe a foot fetish! Nothing wrong with either one!
2006-08-27 13:24:50 · answer #10 · answered by John34 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋