MY FIANCEE' HAS BEEN TALKING TO A 18YR OLD GIRL HE SAID IS HIS "FRIEND" AND I FOUND TEXT MESSAGES FROM HER TALKING ABOUT SEXUAL THINGS WHAT DO I DO TO MAKE HIM ONLY WANT ME?
2006-08-27 13:20:41 · 10 answers · asked by sexymama2769 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all, you can't "make" him want any one or any thing. He is his own individual person.
I would like to suggest that you realize that the behavior that he is showing you now will get worse in time. He is showing you that he is a player and that you can't trust him.
If he is talking to another girl about sex or sexual issues it is because he is either doing her or he thinks that you are incompitant to talk with him about these issues. Either way he does not respect you, and he never wil. Get rid of him before you bring children into this world who will suffer even worse when they become father less or become the children of a broken family.
2006-08-27 13:35:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want him if he is your fiance and is talking to another girl? Later in life he will be cheating on you.
To make him stay with you make sure sex is kinky and different each time. Try wild things he would never expect. As long as he is occupied like that he won't look for another.
2006-08-27 20:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't. You do the smart thing and get out of the relationship.
I dont' know how you can't see this is a huge red flag for you and it says, "dump this man before you marry him and regret it."
2006-08-27 20:35:20 · answer #3 · answered by paintgirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do to make him want you and only you. If he's seeing other women you may want to find another man who respects you a little more.
2006-08-27 20:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by stratagem 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Kick his @ss to the curb!
Pick your self-esteem up off of the floor and move on with your life!
2006-08-27 20:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is NOTHING you can do to change him or what he does. The only way things will change is if he wants them to. The best thing you can do is show him that what he does isn't bothering you. The more you show him that it does, the more he will do it.
2006-08-27 20:27:40 · answer #6 · answered by Golosa 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you can't! Either he wants you or he don't! You may put a patch on it, but that don't resolve the base problem!
2006-08-27 20:29:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Find a new man.
2006-08-27 20:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by iluvsunsets 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him he unfaithful!...you dont want get hurt...he going to talk the talk but what if he had sex? your going get more hurt leave him now.
2006-08-27 20:25:50 · answer #9 · answered by INEEDHELP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i have you sexy, i will not look at another girl. you are sexy and beautiful
2006-08-28 00:07:01 · answer #10 · answered by ed46324 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋