2006-08-27 13:19:40 · 15 answers · asked by joejoe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I mean most women love confrontation, the best way to keep 4rm starting an argument is to ignore her or kiss her while she is fussin put her in her own misery, walk off, I mean we hate to be ignored so that will give her reason to shut up. I would say ignore her and / or walk off or u can kiss her passionately, like catch her when she least expects it, like while she is runnin off at the mouth just walk over and go * muahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh* love ya, LOL
2006-08-27 13:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by Beautiful_1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what women do when they have unrealistic expectations...
...tell her you need "SPACE"
Make the first move and bail out. What's happening right now is the same thing that happened to me-I realized that the not everything is about me.
OR
Stop trying to prove that your doing "something" and try to do something sunstancial like going after what you really want and not being afraid. The point I'm trying to make is that you have to get rid of whatever insecurities you have, build up your strength, so you can surround yourself with better people.
When your mind changes, so does your circumstances. Stop putting up with her sh*t (unless you like the abuse and your WEAK) and brave yourself in finding something better than her. What's better than her?
YOU.
It's YOU who matters and what YOU want. Not her. If she's not willing to show some strength herself and not put in the other half of this relationship, walk away.
Your woman is a manipulator and ahe KNOWS your not going to tell her to get out of your f*ckin face. Maybe that's a bit strong, but for a chick to act like a predator, deserves a hard lashing of words and dismissed. She's no good and you'll be bitter when she makes the first move to dump you and tell you she needs to find a real man. That would burn you and you would deserve that if you don't take steps to go elswhere.
But there's both sides to every story and maybe your too ingnorant to realize that it its YOU that have created the atmosphere for this.
Either way, it's time to make some changes.
Or are you too WEAK to do that?
Good luck.
2006-08-27 13:29:29 · answer #2 · answered by monkeymustard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else. It's obvious she's trying to start an arguement for a reason. Men and women do this when they are stressed, pissed at someone else, cheating and want to switch the blame around, etc. You don't even want to be in the company of a woman like that. If they can't maintain their problems without taking it out on someone else they may have to much baggage to carry.
2006-08-27 13:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of times when a woman tries to start a fight, she bothered by something and usually not what she starts the fight about. Try asking her what's wrong and keep a calm voice. If good ol' reasoning with her doesn't work, stay away!
2006-08-27 13:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by stratagem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can only speak for myself when this happens and its usually because..., me and my bf disagree on something and I want him to explain why he feels the way he does and he cant come up with a good enough answer for me. I keep telling him my views and he just dont grasp them so I back off and let him be. It aint worth missing the happiness. Talk and discuss, but dont argue.., lifes too short.., walk away!
2006-08-27 13:41:33 · answer #5 · answered by scarlett11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a very simple policy regarding arguments.I don't get into them. If I can't stop them I get up and leave. Sometimes I don't come back for a couple of days.
If my girlfriend wants to talk rationally to me about anything I'll be happy to listen and work something out. If she wants to scream a list of my faults and mistakes I've made for the last ten years she can tell it to the wall.
2006-08-27 13:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try to stay away from people like that.. They just want to pick and argue and not someone I want to have in my life on a daily basis..I guess you can always walk away but after walking away a million times then why even bother with her? Life is short enough so get away from her and enjoy yourself in peace
2006-08-27 13:23:34 · answer #7 · answered by Lea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't! If they want an argument it is always your fault, your a male aren't you? No matter if you open your mouth or not it will be twisted and turned on you, get use to it!
2006-08-27 13:23:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really difficult. I just had to hang up the phone on my wife because she got really mad about something to do with finances.
2006-08-27 13:22:34 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are ALWAYS RIGHT!!! - just grab a beer and let it go, they control the world and you know why :) - you have to give and take, if you get my drift
2006-08-27 13:23:20 · answer #10 · answered by Ron&Jen S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋