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would it be wrong to divorce because of a language barrier?

We have a little girl who is 5 years old. If we divorce, my wife would have full custody.

I have been thinking that it was foolish and desperate to marry. I keep regretting that we have a language barrier.
in the 6 years we have been married, she has come to learn English. She works graveyard shift at place where they make medical equipment. I work days as a looser telemarketer.

If I leave her, she will be poor with a 5 year old to take care of.

I will be poor, I have no friends and no family. No mother, no father, or brothers or sisters.

maybe it would be a favor for her if I leave. she could find a man who will love her better.

2006-08-27 13:17:02 · 24 answers · asked by bradlitazole 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

24 answers

leave her and smuggle another bride from mexico

2006-08-27 13:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

COWARD plain and simple ur a coward.. .. language barrier?? go take some language classes, nothing stopping u from learning her language either..

So u go out make a hasty decision, with out THINKING.. marry this girl.. then have a daughter together, and now u want to walk out for B.S. excuses.. and thats all they are , EXCUSES

GROW UP BE A "REAL" MAN STAND BY UR WIFE BE A FATHER TO YOUR LITTLE GIRL.. u dont make enough money??? go find a different job.. go take some classes at the college.. to better urself.. but stop actting as if u'd be doing something For her or For your daughter, cause ur not!! all ur doing is wanting to run out on ur responsibility cause you made poor decisions and u cant own up to them TUFF.. stop being a selfish little boy.. and become a real MAN ur daughter DESERVES a house with her mother and father...stop being such a damn Coward..

2006-08-27 20:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1 0

YOU will not have a language problem if YOU got up off YOUR a.r.s.e. and did something about it,would YOU?Instead YOU are quite prepared to ruin two lives here,one a five year old,YOU are a waster and a user..actually,on second thoughts,they would be better off without YOU,ha!YOU would lose out on the love of a little girl,and a woman who has tried to adapt toYOUR way of life,for YOU.I wish the two of them much luck in all that they do-as for YOU,i dont like YOU,because this is all about YOU,so go away.

2006-08-27 21:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you love,really love her,you do not need to divorce because the language.If you are happy with her,why to think about divorce?Think in your beautiful daughter,how you will leave this kid without you,her father?around the world,many people have the same problem you have; and they never even think, to get divorce for that reason.Help your wife with love; and more love,to speak your language.Good luck, and forget about divorce.Do not do something you will regret all your life.Think good,please.God bless you and good luck.Think in your little daughter,before you do something wrong.

2006-08-27 20:31:13 · answer #4 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0 0

This should have been the question to ask BEFORE you marry her.

Why will she get full custody? You will get joint custody unless of course you are a total loser, like your job.

Maybe it would be better for her but it just sounds to me like you want to make no effort to learn her language, or even be in the relationship.

2006-08-27 20:21:05 · answer #5 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0 0

what language does she speak? you decided to marry her and thats not her fault now shes gonna suffer for it! its hard yes im married to an arabic man who happens to be excellent with english but still..i would never divorce him if he wasnt..and even you have a child...let her be raised in a good loving family. now she knows english so whats the problem? help her learn it better..... dont think it would be a favour maybe she never finds someone and spends her whole life praying you'll come back......pls dont do this!

2006-08-27 20:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ YaHabibeDisney ♥ 5 · 0 0

You said, "If I leave her, she will be poor with a 5 year old to take care of.

I will be poor, I have no friends and no family. No mother, no father, or brothers or sisters".


Seems to me that you have already answered your own question...WHO WANTS TO BE POOR????????

2006-08-27 21:14:10 · answer #7 · answered by tabby 2 · 0 0

you know already that you are a looser why you are seeking for advice,maybe you no love her, 6 long yrs to stay 2gther still can speak side byside language?you 2 have been in school or not,

2006-08-27 20:34:18 · answer #8 · answered by mari-mar 3 · 0 0

Try and learn her language and give it a chance b4 u throw 6yrs of marriagedown the drain.

2006-08-27 20:48:40 · answer #9 · answered by blueeyed_girl81 2 · 0 0

you knew what you were getting into when you married her. grow up, learn her language, and get some education so you can make enough $ to take care of your family!

2006-08-27 20:21:44 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0 0

getter a better job
have a better outlook on life
and then maybe
just maybe
you find you got a good women
but you porbaly one of those self depreciating wimps out there
who sees the glass half empty

2006-08-27 20:25:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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