Ive been dating my boyfriend for about a month and a half now, I've noticed he stills get nervous around me, but I do know he likes me a lot, anyway Im ready to move to the next level in our relationship I think, because im so comfortable, next step being sex, so should I ask him or what?
We're 16 btw
2006-08-27 13:01:38 · 18 answers · asked by Hailey S 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Im a virgin, and I think hes the one to lose it to, I didnt mean right away, but I do feel comfortable enough to eventually have sex with him
2006-08-27 13:13:26 · update #1
If you think that he's nervous around you what makes you think that hes ready to ahve sex with you? Your only ready for sex when you and your partner are comfortable being naked. Sincehe haven't even gotten to the comfortable part. This makes you believe you two are ready for the next step how? No offense but, you two only dated for what, a month and a half? And you already want to hae sex with this guy? excuse me but are you a serious? You must be kidding because you have to be the easiest girl of the school to pull that off. I don't think you two ready, maybe you are but he isn't. By the way your 16 years old? Not ready!
2006-08-27 13:08:00 · answer #1 · answered by Liliac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,hun you have been with him for a month and a half,please slow down.I understand that you care about him and that is good but just dont take things fast.He may not be ready,although even at your age i have to say communication is the way to go about this.Talk about it,eventually he will open up but this is a new relationship,or fairly new anyway so im sure he isnt ready right away.Please,when you both decide the time is right,and you will both know because you will both be ready.Please,be responsible.If you are even considering having sex you need to go to your obgyn get a check up and get put on birth control.Birth control isnt 100% effective and it does not prevent the contraction of std's so have another form of protection available.Be responsible about this as you seem to like him quiet a bit,as he does you as well.Good luck,be careful,and communicate.
2006-08-27 13:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! If he's just nervous being around you it seems really foolish to make such a big step. Wait till you've established a closer relationship, what's the rush?
2006-08-27 13:06:39 · answer #3 · answered by nashiranickel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you in such a hurry to have sex? Enjoy the time you are spending together now. The hugging, cuddling, kissing. Once the sex starts the other stuff will deminish and you'll miss it when it is gone.
2006-08-27 13:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you think you feel comfortable about it, you aren't ready. Wait until marriage because you might not marry him, and you will regret it. You should stay away from sex.
2006-08-27 14:54:50 · answer #5 · answered by Kenneth S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beautiful girls always makes us guys nervous and NO do not go to the next base until ya marry him cause if ya do ya could ruin a beautiful relationship
2006-08-27 13:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, slow down. When he is ready he will let you know, sensitive guys are cautious. Perhaps he wants only your best, perhaps he would rather wait till marriage. Maybe he honors the good he sees in you. However, use birth control.
2006-08-31 10:41:32 · answer #7 · answered by rc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes nervous around you reassure him how much you like him but don't have sex. think about the consequences of it. if you can handle them go ahead but use protection. if i was you i'd wait a few more months
2006-08-27 13:08:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way too young to have sex. Do you know that you have your whole life in front of you to have sex? Wait. It changes EVERYTHING in a relationship.
2006-08-27 13:07:07 · answer #9 · answered by Good Gushy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you wont take this answer seriously, but your way to young to have sex. And a month? you want to have sex after a month? if your bf is smart, he won't. Not even sluts have sex after a month. When its into a matter of days..you've crossed from slut to whore.
2006-08-27 13:10:45 · answer #10 · answered by alexwhlr3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋