My son came at 36 weeks also he lived one day and died it was one of the hardest things that ever happened to me. It will get easier but you will never get over it. No matter what anyone tells you take time to grieve everyone is different so don't let anyone tell you how to feel or when you should be over it. That was your child, your loss and you need to grieve your way and in your own time you will begin to heal. I will pray for you. I don't know if you have a relationship with God or not but I did and was very angry with him for a long time but He's a big God and my anger didn't phase him or keep him from loving me and seeing me through that very dark time even when I blamed him. Your not alone.
2006-08-27 14:44:31
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answered by nikki 1
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I am so sorry for your loss I went through delivering a still born baby, I wish I had words that would comfort you but there are none. You are not alone, try to find a support group in your community through your church or maybe the health department.
My thoughts and good energy are with you.
2006-08-28 03:12:30
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answered by fuzzylilhippiechick 3
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I understand how much you hurt. I went through a similar thing almost a year ago and that is not a day that goes by that I don't think about it. It will take time to get over, just remember not to blame yourself, for you did not do anything wrong. Some things just happen for a reason, that we can't answer right away sometimes.
2006-08-27 19:55:05
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answered by shay 2
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I have had a similar loss, but from the dads perspective. It was a long time ago, but I remember it like yesterday. It was the worst time of my life and I couldn't bear to think about attempting to have another child. I couldn't bear the risk of losing another one. contact me if you want to talk.
Good Luck
2006-08-27 19:52:00
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answered by marks3kids 5
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isnt 36 weeks nine months..thats the perfect time period in whcih a baby is born..i mean if uu lost ur baby thats sometin horrible..rest in peace and god bless u.
2006-08-27 19:52:25
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answered by Anonymous
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oh my i have never went through anything like that but i can sympathize i hope you are doing okay and you have a good support system helping you through this tragedy god bless(if u believe in god)
2006-08-27 19:57:44
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answered by angelina_mcardle 5
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hi i didnt personally , but my daughter was 21 weeks and baby girl died at 18 weeks in side her , the drs let her have natural birth, baby weighed 5.2 oz 5 in long held her in my hand she was so beautiful. sry for your loss wishes and god bless you....
2006-08-27 19:54:55
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answered by tinker 2
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im sorry to hear this. a tragedy , my sister had a still born a long time ago. she doesn't have a PC or i would tell her to contact you. again im sorry .
2006-08-27 19:51:54
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answered by East Texan 4
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dont give up there's a unborn baby ready to call you mom
2006-08-27 19:52:35
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answered by Anonymous
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my x and I had 3 miscarriages
God Bless and try again
2006-08-27 19:51:05
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answered by Red Sawx ® 6
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