The bridesmaids usually start down the isle in reverse order so that they end up standing with the maid/matron of honor closest to the bride, then the first bridesmaid, second bridesmaid, and so on.
They usually walk one at a time, sometimes escorted by the corresponding grooms attendants. After the first gets about 1/3 to 1/2 way down the isle, the next one starts. There shouldn't ever be empty isle waiting on the party members.
Small close steps should be taken, and always bring both feet together after each step. So it would go: Right, together. Left, together. Right, together, etc... This slow formal walk allows plenty of time for each step so that the dress doesn't get rumpled or stepped on, and so that the guests can appreciate the ceremonial aspect of the event. Also gives plenty of great picture opportunities :-)
If there is a flower girl and/or ring bearer, they usually go last after the maids, just before the bride, so that the rings are close at hand, and only the bride should be walking on flowers.
These "rules" are pretty old, so many modern brides just do whatever they want. The formality and tradition are what's being respected here. So a non-traditional woman may find them too strict.
2006-08-27 12:23:42
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answered by welches_grape_jelly 6
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