Ok, I have this dilema (?). (?) means that I dont know exactly how to spell it. But anyways, I really like this guy, he looks exactly like Matt Dallas (Kyle XY) and gosh he is so fine and cute. But I have never had the courage to talk to him. So what would be the best way to dress, hair, and make up (I know not too much) to catch his eye and start talking to him. Also, a good way to get him alone so i can talk to him but he is always with these girls, gosh i seriously dislike them. How can i get him by himself and talk to him?
2006-08-27 11:53:47 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
I waz maybe planning on getting him alone n telling him dat he looks like kyle, and maybe start a conv., but i dunno!!
2006-08-27 12:13:57 · update #1
I'm a big fan of dark jeans, heels, and a tank. It's about the classiest thing you can wear while still looking casual, and it's flattering no matter what size you are.
Your makeup shouldn't be overdone. Try to look cute and fresh. Don't line on the heavy black eyeliner. Make sure your lips are glossy and that you don't have a "foundation mask" from using the wrong color foundation.
As far as getting him alone to talk to him, try to come up with an event you think he would like to attend (a big movie that just came out? A hockey game?) and say, "Hey, Kyle, can I talk to you over here for a minute?"
If he's not completely rude, he'll leave his girlfriends to come talk to you.
Tell him that several of your friends are going to the movie/hockey game/other event and you have an extra ticket and wondered if he'd like to come along.
Everyone likes to do things. He'll say yes, at which point, you smile, flip your hair, say "Great! I'll meet you/pick you up/be picked up by you at (insert time here)."
IF on the off chance he says no, however, you smile, flip you hair, and say, "Oh, okay. I'll ask Todd. I think he wanted to see that movie, too. See you later!"
Good luck, girl!
2006-09-04 02:43:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to do is get hold of yourself. Calm down, it's not the worst thing that could happen to you.
Wear whatever you normally do and are comfortable in. People always look better when they are comfortable in their clothes. Super high heels, short tight skirts, and low cut tight tops only make you look trashy and like you are trying too hard. You probably will have some clumsy or awkward movements in stuff you aren't used to.
Do your hair to flatter your face shape, talk to a stylist about this.
Get a free makeover at a department store cosmetics counter, and make sure the woman isn't doing anything heavy. Tell her you want a light natural look for everyday wear. Then go to your regular store and buy the same colors for much less.
Shower, shave, brush your teeth, keep your nails trimmed and even, file away any rough edges on them. Use antiperspirant or deodorant. Good personal hygiene is always a must have in dealing with the opposite sex.
Then just walk up to him and say "Hi." Introduce yourself if you two don't talk much. "It's *insert name*, remember?" Then ask when would be a good time for the two of you to talk. Ignore the giggling masses that think he is there for their personal flirting practice. Don't be suggestive about wanting to be alone, he'll think that you are making him an offer (and not in a good way). Ask if he's got a minute, there is something you wanted to talk to him about, or something you wanted to ask him. Then suggest if you could call him sometime, or maybe suggest going out for a pizza or movie (or whatever). Most guys are attracted to a girl that's not afraid to do the asking. They are impressed at how confident you are, instead of the simpering ones that think the guy should do the asking.
Get over your dislike of the other girls, some of them may actually be his friends, not just the local bimbos. A quick way to loose someone's interest is not liking their friends.
2006-08-27 12:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i think the frist thing u should find out is what the kind of the girls he likes,what is his favorite,where he always go etc.talk to one of his best friend and beat about the bush. then dressed urself clean neat and beautiful(of caurse the kind he likes.) tidy ur hair style,frequently clean the oil from ur face,make up lightly,clean ur teeth, tidy ur lips(don't let them looks like cortices) keep your nails trimmed and shining them.use deodorant, get a nice dress,be confidence , when u walking,talking,doing anything.
if u r too shy to talk him in public(I mean in school or the working place)them go to the place he usually go after work or school.at there u can talk to him and need not to feel nerveous. u should talk to him about u want meet him,but don't be too precipitance. first let him know u want him to be ur friend ,let he know more about u (know more about ur excellence)them may be he will talk to u about dating.u can also talk about these but u need to wait a little time after u two meet the first time.show him that u r unclouded.u know sometimes we r surprised about a girl who is very confidence to herself and have enough courage to get anything they want.may be he also have noticed u but just haven't speak out. show him that u like to go with him together but not wrapped him.guys don't like to bring a girl to everywhere.u know sometimes a girl loves a guy,she can't stop to nag.that is really bad
if other girls say something negative to u to that guy or in public,ignore them ,show all the ppl that u r not a haggle over every ounce's girl.
anyway this is not that horrible ,be calm and be ur best,try to do the things that all the ppl on this answers whoever tould to u kindly I betcha u will get him finally.GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-08-27 15:19:57 · answer #3 · answered by Zac 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself, grow some courage and take a chance and talk to him. What's the worst that can happen?! And if he isn't interested, you can't make him interested. Not like the world will end. There's LOADS of guys in this world. And a lot of them are cute too.
2006-09-03 16:23:23 · answer #4 · answered by nsphatgurl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't give him the BIG HEAD!!! He may already have one!!! with all those girls around him!! I would let him go after me, i wouldn't go after him!! If a guy likes you he will let you know!! Just be your self, why try and be someone else or dress just for someone else??? Can't someone like you for who you are, why set yourself up for him ?? if he likes you he'll notice you from all the Rest anyway!! he might like you the way you are!! Don't push yourself on a guy!! Beside a guy can tell when you do that and may not like it!! If he does he may just be using you anyway, for his kicks!!!!!!!!1
2006-09-03 16:14:18 · answer #5 · answered by sports_runner_racing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to wear in a special way. you havn't yet know what kind of dressing atract him. just a bright smile and accidental meetings but at least two times a day can atrract his attention. try to show your self what those girls aren't.
2006-09-04 10:17:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself and dress how you feel the most comfortable. if you have confidence in yourself then he will like you for you. Last thing you want is to dress special for him and then after a few dates you go back to the real comfortable you and he loses interest. if he is a genuine guy then he will be interested in you!
2006-09-03 12:03:39 · answer #7 · answered by cali13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dressing like a slut might help get his attention. But if you want the classy approach, cliche but, be yourself. And the best accessory is confidence.
2006-08-27 11:57:46 · answer #8 · answered by Fashionvista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a close guy friend to ask him "what kind of girl do you like and how would you like her to dress?" see easy as that but if you don't have a guy friend that you can trust then trust a girl that knows him then get her to ask him then see if he's not seeing anyone right now then he'll probably come to you just like you planned!
2006-08-27 12:02:11 · answer #9 · answered by bekka 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont walk up to him first be part of the group and be misteryious so he goes 4 u not the other way around
2006-09-04 07:57:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋