school is starting on 4th of september and I am allowed to visit my school because I am going away to college I will miss my teachers. There are 4 teachers whom I stayed in touch with and one that knows me for I always performed at school but here is the problem there is one that I really like and should I tell him how I feel because he doesn't teach me anymore though we promise to be good friends but will he get angry or will he eventually turn away and stop replying my e-mails?
2006-08-27 11:53:22 · 4 answers · asked by Shirley l 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Keep it to yourself. Go away to college. You'll meet new guys and study and have lots of fun. Don't tell him, or anyone else. His reputation as a teacher could also be on the line. It will make him feel inappropriate and you'll be shunned by your whole town as a Lolita! If it's meant to be, when you're 20 years old, go back and tell him. Then it'll be less in peoples' minds that he used to teach you. You'll be fully an adult then and noone can say anything. Focus on your studies and guys your own age, and maybe later, if it is real it'll happen then. Right now the ethics are that you are an impressionable mind. That means that everyone sees it as he would have been taking advantage of you because you're his student. Maybe it's a crush because you look up to him, or he's a great teacher and is nice to you. There are many guys your own age that'll make you feel special and you'll really like. Don't tell him, because if you realize later that it was just a schoolgirl crush, you'll be very imbarrassed and you can't undo it. Best of luck in college! Get an awesome degree that'll give you a great life. Don't go for the MRS. degree. (the "I only came to college to find a man" degree), Life's too short:)
2006-08-27 12:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by ELA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it sucks to let go of people but in this situation I think it is best. You should just move on completely. If you tell him that you like him, what are you really going to accomplish. You will still be going away to college and he will still be back at home teaching. It will just make things awkward between you too. You can always ask others how he is doing but keeping in touch with him all the time may just make your feelings for him grow. College is a whole new experience of life and it's so much more fun when you let go of your past and start over. Good Luck and God Bless.
2006-08-28 21:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by smiles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put your feelings aside about this teacher. you are going away to college and will meet so many new people that you have things in common with. don't put this teacher in an awkward situation, for he has his own life to live. you put him at risk for losing his teaching license. and for what? a school girl crush.
2006-08-27 19:21:16 · answer #3 · answered by bernie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think he Will stop replaying to you , but maybe the circumstances let him not available all the time then he will be back again to give you his excuses and replay you again. but by time you will be so busy to replay anyone and starting new life by working or having kids and life stuff.
2006-08-27 19:19:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋