see my really good best friend is someone who i can trust. and all i have on my mind is him, him, him! i was quiet in class and before school ended he asked me "what's wrong?" i said "nothing..". i was about to tell him but i said "i'll tell you after school........" so i waited til he was out of class and i followed him and no matter how many times i called him he still wouldn't listen. so long story short.......i still can't decide if i like him more than a friend.......i really need help!
2006-08-27 11:35:54 · 17 answers · asked by bekka 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
oh this may sound stupid but i've never had a boyfriend before......but only really close guy friends.........
2006-08-27 11:41:28 · update #1
Tell him you dig him.
2006-08-27 11:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by Re Fined 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you really are into him and I think that you should give it time. Of course the first good thing about this, is that he's a best friend which means chances are he won't purposly hurt you like a crush would or just some guy. You've known him for a while ad that's what attracts you to him. Give it time, make sure this isn't just a move based on hormones or wanting to be in the mainstream and start dating. You don't want to ruin any long time friendships.
2006-08-27 11:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by shortskirtmakeitwork 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay. Here's what you need to do: Sit down and have a conversation with him. Tell him you're attracted to him and you would like to see if there could be anything more in your relationship than just friendship. You don't want to come on too strong. He is you're best friend and the idea of being more than friends might take a little getting used to. Ask him if he's ever felt romantic feelings toward you. If he says no, let it go. Tell him it's okay and you're perfectly fine being friends; it was just a notion. If he says yes, ask him if he would want to try going on a date or two and taking it from there. What ever you do, don't make it a bigger deal than it has to be. Guys don't usually like drama.
2006-08-27 11:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by amrmusicqueen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well maybe if ur really good friends i wouldnt tell him u like him cuz that may ruin ur friendship with him...and yeah. i would stay just friends so u can be friends with him for a long time. and if he asks u put them say yes u have a chance good luck
2006-08-27 11:55:12 · answer #4 · answered by ♥†♥SARAH 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, this might properly be a no longer uncomplicated one as i've got not got plenty journey, yet right here is going. I carry mutually you're nonetheless enormously youthful and quite scared in telling your mum for worry of what she is going to assert. it truly is enormously comprehensible. i think you truly might desire to locate that genuine, specific time to tell her. The extra you positioned it off, the extra aggravating you will substitute into and the extra worried you would be in telling her. If she is an exceptionally understanding mum, she would be in a position to take heed to you. She might or won't settle to your way of existence, yet with any luck she would be in a position to appreciate you for it and settle for you basically as you're. i do no longer pick to dis-appreciate your emotions, yet once you're an exceptionally youthful individual, i'm thinking in the journey that your emotions might substitute. i recognize you probable have heard this till now yet growing to be up can carry those emotions approximately,particularly while your hormones are going nuts!! each so often it truly is completely wide-spread to sense an charm for the two. in case you truly need to tell your mum, you will possibly desire to construction up the braveness to realize this. Why no longer in the beginning attempt writing down what you sense and the style you will tell her. i recognize it truly is not going to be no longer uncomplicated. tell her which you have been apprehensive and scared and thanks to this you havn't shared it together with her till now(years in the past). according to threat you will possibly desire to assert, "i wasn't specific if i grew to become into truly bi and had to attend and notice" Be your self.. Be truthful and truthful and with any luck she would be in a position to understand. solid good fortune!! according to threat let us know the style you go.
2016-11-05 22:04:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay friends, That is the best kind. Study, and get good grades. Time will tell, if you two should be together.
2006-08-27 11:41:58 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't really end your crush on him just because he wasn't really listening once. Find out what's wrong with him. If his ignoring you persists and feel like you and him just can't make it as more than friends, then just drop the crush.
2006-08-27 11:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by olalla 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to make a decision right now. Try spending some time together alone and see how your feelings develop.
2006-08-27 11:40:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's the main thing on your mind, then yes, you like him as more than a friend. So tell him, however, and whenever, you can.
2006-08-27 11:39:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well of course you like him more than a fiend if your always thinking about him but first you need to find out if he likes you too because if you tell him and he doesnt like you back it might mess up your friendship.
2006-08-27 11:58:08 · answer #10 · answered by mg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go on casual one on one hang out dates, like the mall, a casual dinner, or a movie stay out of conversations about relationships
2006-08-27 11:40:32 · answer #11 · answered by bbrun5 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋