2006-08-27 11:31:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Uh.. Well she doesn't sound like much of a friend. No one's flawless though. This is really a broad question and you're looking for a definite answer? That's really up to you. If you still think she's a good person and wouldn't do that, or anything like that, to you again and can forgive her for the past, then sure; be friends with her. If not, then get rid of her..
2006-08-27 11:34:38 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The truth is everyone makes mistakes and depending on the severity of the lie and what is the result of that affects the decisions we make. Of course no one likes to be lied to but if it's for your own sake then sometimes we have to accept that. But be careful some people just lie all the time regardless of others' feelings and outcomes from their lies. If you are really good friends and this never happened before then confront her and fidn out what was the cause of that lie. If you get a straight and legit answer then maybe you'll find the heart to forgive her but if she starts to make up excuses and get away from the truth then maybe this friendship is not all that what is seemed to you.
2006-08-27 18:39:11 · answer #2 · answered by SnowLeo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that all depends. If they lied to protect u then I say u should still stay friends. If they lied cuz of something else u should try and move on. I mean It will be hard but u don't need someone in ur life that u can't trust.
2006-08-27 18:40:34 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on so many stuff.
do you value your friendship and i think you do coz you care to ask about it here !
look i had the same problem before so here is what i have done take what you like and throw away what ever you don't :) :
talk to her about it explain every little detail of the situation tell her that your not okay about it and your reevaluating your friendship don't let her off the hook easily tell her that you need to think think it over and you value what you hear-ed and what you know and if you think that she deserves another chance well give her that chance but still keep your distance still don't trust her yet and see how it goes or you can give her another chance and see how it goes so when later on in life you wont say what if !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
as for me i gave her another chance she blue it off like a nuclear bomb sorry to say wishing you have better luck
2006-08-27 19:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what your friend lied about and it depends on how important your friend is to you. Good friends are hard to come by and if you have one, then I think you should try to work it out. Life is too short to hold a grudge.
2006-08-27 18:38:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend said alot of lies to you constantly then maybe you should find a new friend of what u expected but if your freind just told u this lie then forgive her and move on because noone's perfect and people feel that they need to lie to please others.
2006-08-27 18:37:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone deserves a second chance depending on the lie.
2006-08-27 18:37:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lie is a curse, a curse is a sin, when she gets to heaven they won't let her in.
When people lie they do so because they "think" they will get away with it. They never do, it always comes back, like a curse.
2006-08-27 18:41:05 · answer #8 · answered by onlyonemeg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can still be friends, but just make it clear that they have to earn back ur trust.
2006-08-27 19:21:17 · answer #9 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be more specific. it depends on the lie...
I cant help u with your personal problems
2006-08-27 18:38:53 · answer #10 · answered by pandaluv_987_* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋