We have been fed the notion that women liked to be pampered like a baby in bed right. However doesn't every women like their men to treat them like a ***** or sumpten while they're at it
2006-08-27 11:31:46 · 20 answers · asked by gawine 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
The answer to your question depends upon your partner, the woman in your life. To answer your own question, you need to communicate with her honestly and openly.
Some women only respond to kid gloves, others want a judo chop or boxing gloves. You job is to find out exactly what she wants and when she wants it. Then deliver to the best of your ability.
If you are totally in the dark, start with making sure that she understands that you respect her no matter what she asks. Do not be shocked if you end up climbing down from a chandelier. Assume NOTHING. If you really do not know, ask. If you suspect, then hint and if hinting does not make things clear, ask.
The one rule to keep in terms of your behavior is "never without permission." She is the one to give it, you are the one to ask.
2006-08-30 12:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by Richard 7 · 70⤊ 1⤋
Right off the bat you're in trouble with the generalizing about anything and especially women. There's a continuum which runs from close to Puritanical to simulated rape. The real problem comes when you are not in communication with your partner. Some won't say anything or give clues so I would play it missionary safe. Then there are those who give hints to the ones who come right out and let you know...those are the best for sure. It's all good when both partners are on the same page.
2006-08-27 22:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by Grody Jicama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Romance
2006-08-27 19:39:17 · answer #3 · answered by Re Fined 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for every woman b/c we're all different. I can tell you that am moody, so the sex i want depends on my mood. sometimes i want it soft and sweet and slow. Most often than not I want to be banged out hard and fast, And don't forget the art of a quickie. The adrenaline rush of getting caught or running late is amazing! but that's just me of course. Your job is to find a woman's buttons each time you get togther and push them. Remember, 4 play starts in the mind. so if you if you free my mind my a** will follow.
2006-08-27 18:39:59 · answer #4 · answered by rivdae 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I will try to answer this in a better fashion than the question.
Most of the time tenderness and respect will go along way to enjoyment, satisfaction and enhancement of love, but once in a while a bit of primal is the way to go. This has nothing to do with being treated badly.
2006-08-27 23:56:22 · answer #5 · answered by Myr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the woman.
Some women like it rough, others prefer it lovey. You have to find out what each woman likes.
It also depends on her mood at the time. Maybe at one time she might want a big of roughness, or dominance, but at another, want it to be romantic and all that.
2006-08-28 02:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by Pixie-elf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both styles are incredibly nice in their own way, but mixing it up is arousing.
While being "pampered" is clean, tantric, and just romantic, "caveman" style allows both partners to just exercise their primitive drives and the sexy thirst for control which then ends up in a nice, simple ending.
2006-08-27 18:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by Kristina S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
disrespect is NEVER a way to a women. A little rough is good..but that depends on the women. But never under any circumstances should you call a women or treat a women with disrespect or belittlement
2006-08-27 18:40:34 · answer #8 · answered by AngelicSmile81 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!
Romance is always a good thing, and in vast quantities.
If my husband grabbed me by the hair and jumped on top of me, I would be convinced that he didnt care about me, never did, and is incapable of caring, period.
Sex is an expression of love, often vigorous, but always caring for the other persons needs, likes and dislikes, never doing anything that would harm or demean the other person.
This is vastly different than the assault on a woman's body that you describe.
2006-08-27 18:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes--not all the time. I think we women like some diversity. We like to know that we're respected, but at the same time like to be "taken" every now and then as well.
2006-08-29 20:01:53 · answer #10 · answered by Ana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are with the one you love, you make love. You guys need to relax with your woman, explore her completely with every part of your own body.
Take your time, there's no rush when there is so much to explore. You'll know it, or she'll let you know when she wants it or needs it "like a caveman"...
2006-08-27 21:37:15 · answer #11 · answered by Tom B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋