Am ultra hony and am 13 should I do it wit my boyfriend
But am afaid to have kids
2006-08-27 11:28:08 · 27 answers · asked by OOPs 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
normal yes...advisable no...but if you wish to proceed use a condom
2006-08-27 11:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
NO! As a thirteen years old girl, you are not mature enough. I am 14 and gonna be 15 next month, i m still a virgin. Although many kids around you might have done that before, what other do doesnt mean you have to do it.
i got a friend who is smae age with me and she did all the prevention stuff, but she still got pregrant! it is not 100 percent safe even you did those prevention! My friend has to drop out of skool and take care the baby. And her bf dumped her after a while. Bf at our age are not long term relationship!
So, email me if you have any problem, i will always be your side, no matter what
victoria
2006-08-28 00:10:50 · answer #2 · answered by v_o_v_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!
At 13, you need to be a kid. You can never go back once you grow up (look at Michael Jackson. How sad is that?)
You should be afraid to have kids. And you should be afraid of catching diseases that could prevent you from ever having kids, or maybe even kill you.
How old is your boyfriend? If he's older than, say, 14 or 15, he's a pedophile and should be jailed if he so much as touches you.
Hey, you asked!
2006-08-27 18:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by Pangolin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to be attracted to your boyfriend at this age, but not the best choice making to act on it. There are alot of ways to show affection without having intercourse. At your age, it is dangerous. Unplanned pregnancy can change the course of your life. While babies are blessings, it is unfair for you to make unintelligant choices about there future. Save yourself for when you are ready to be the mother you should be. STDs are also a major consideration. Not only can they kill, they can ruin your ability to have future children as well as haunt you all your life. Please refrain from having actual intercourse (sex) until you are older and more mature. Concentrate on enjoying your teenage years with friends, the mall, movies, prom, college planning, job training, etc.... There will be plenty of time for all the hot and heavy stuff when you are a little older and can handle the results of your actions.
2006-08-27 18:36:33 · answer #4 · answered by Tina Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu don't have sex because you want to or you feel horny.
You do it because you are ready to possibly start a life with your partner
Go! Do whatever you want...but be aware that being horny is just your hormones.
Having sex is just sex but with the possible chances of AIDS or HIV or kids or many other bad things.
I advise you to wait until you get older(like 19-20) or until you are married.
Yet, still do whatever you want. It truly is your choice.
Just if you do have sex at a young age remember that that will be with you for the rest of your life.
SO don't regret it!
Hope I Helped!
2006-08-27 19:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by Almost.Famous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT HAVE SEX!!!! thirteen is too young for sex, i know of a few girls who got pregnant at 13/14 and they are now in their 20's with kids who are as old as they were when they had a kid... they could be grandparents at 30!!!
There are other things you can do if you're horny, and yes, it's normal
2006-08-27 19:21:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is very normal to feel the feelings down below that you are having, however it isnt normal for 13 year olds to be having sex, there are many good things about sex, and it is enjoyable BUT there are so many things that can happen! sexually transmitted diseases, there is study that has proved that cervical cancer is a form of STD... consider that too! having sex and getting pregnant, is just one possiblity. all of them will change your life forever!
If you do choose to go ahead and ignore us all on here,
PLEASE educate yourself!
Learn your menstral cycle, learn about the STD's and learn about all of your birth control options! and the best way to releive being horny and not worrying about all of these issues... self pleasure!
2006-08-31 16:42:23 · answer #7 · answered by Why? ... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't have sex with him, especially if you are afraid of getting pregnant. Nobody is ready at 13. Wait awhile. If you are that horny, try masturbation, I know it seems gross but it is better than ending up pregnant or with an STD
2006-08-27 19:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by MsBeav 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK horney you reached puberty but honey 13 that's kind of against the law get a grip how would it look if u end up pregnant
2006-08-27 18:47:01 · answer #9 · answered by laylee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so you said and I quote "am 13" meaning you yourself know that its wrong that you shouldnt go through with it, so why ask us what you already know? Look, if youre afraid of getting pregnant you know you shouldnt. Wait till you know youre ready, you will know too because you wouldnt have to ask a bunch of strangers if you should or not to do it. Wait and be safe.
2006-08-27 18:39:52 · answer #10 · answered by niceguy4agze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be very carefull. There are more things to be worried and scared about. STD's are not fun either. If you use protection (comdoms and birthcontrol) maybe but it still dosn't protect you from diseases. Try haveing oral sex it is a little safer.
2006-08-31 12:24:58 · answer #11 · answered by babykins1025 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋