I have been with this girl for two years now, she is very attached to me, whenever she comes to me she does want to go back home even if it is agains her parents will. Now she insist I should impregnate her but she is still schooling anyway, what does this mean. I love her anyway.
2006-08-27 11:11:47 · 28 answers · asked by tom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Run, you cant afford it
2006-08-27 11:13:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you mentioned the fact that 'she' is very attached to 'you'. you didnt say that you are attached to her, so maybe making her pregnant wouldnt be the right idea, having a kid isn't a joke and it needs to be something that you both really want and agree on because only then will you both make the effort, theres no point in just her wanting to have a child, and how would you support a child if you had one with her? do you want to have a child with her? sounds like the only reason that she wants a child is just to make your relationship concrete, and its not fair to bring a child into the world just to make it happen, but if you want it too, then you should at least wait till she finishes school first!
2006-08-27 18:17:10 · answer #2 · answered by nadia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that she wants to trap you into a relationship. She thinks that by having a child you will stay with her. Of course you will just kick her to the curb and or keep her hanging as a booty call side salad. That is your style. Remember she may be able to take you on the Jerry Springer show where you will be ridiculed and heckled by your peers.
Furthermore, if you don't pay child support you may be thrown in prison where you will be forced to mary a man named Chicken Bone Slim. Good luck
2006-08-27 18:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by willberb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT get her pregnant. She's looking for a way out of her parent's house. If there is a baby, she'll probably insist on getting married and living with you. This is just her way to stop her parents controling her.
2006-08-27 18:33:47 · answer #4 · answered by Voice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your lives set up first and if you feel you can make that sort of commitment purpose first
Children have made all the shite in life bareable for me but I believe it's because the wife & I are in a stable relationship
and completely commited to each other
2006-08-27 18:20:42 · answer #5 · answered by wee_nat123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she has you by the short hairs and you have a very long time paying child support plus. Don't allow anyone talk you into a baby if your not ready nor can afford one, they are very very expensive and as they grow even more so.
2006-08-27 18:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im quiet youn my self and i was pregnat while i was still at school. personally i hated it but i didnt belive in abortions and neither did my bf. we are still going out together almost 4 yrs but we dont want to get married just yet we arent ready. my suggestion is it her down and talk to her about this tell her your feelings ask how he is feeling also ask y she wants to get married at such a young age. but most importantly tell her your feelings and what your thoughts are on all of this even if this does hurt her. and maybe spend a weekend appart from each other it wouldnt hurt if she is so atached to you.
2006-08-27 18:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_little_kat_69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready to settle down with her and start a family, for God's sakes, man, don't do it.
She wants to get pregnant to tie you down to her, sounds like.
Use protection. How old are you two anyway?
2006-08-27 18:14:41 · answer #8 · answered by Karen? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get her pregnant! She's looking for a way out of her current situation! You'll end up paying clild suport for the rest of your life!
2006-08-27 18:13:38 · answer #9 · answered by sarahbeth 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means she wants to have you in her power, so harder to leave her and so you cannot evict her if she moved in easily etc. Be careful. Also see above answer. She isn't feeling secure and she wants some stability, only this way would end in tears.
2006-08-27 18:18:27 · answer #10 · answered by The Mole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you'll be liable for support for the child for at least 18 years.
2006-08-27 18:18:23 · answer #11 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋