been with hubby 15 years, but think about women how do i take the next step?

Answer 1

get a women to join you and hubby for a threesome,then you can try it and please your man at the same time!!

Answer 2

I think you should visit a marriage counsellor because every case
is a different case. It involves separation or not, alimony but the
most important fact is to feel sure that whichever step you will or
not take, is the best for for all three. There are so many unknown
factors and the solution for one couple may not be the best for
another. Family problems, children, parents etc. So I can assure
you that a good counsellor has advised so many cases he/she
knows every variant and will be the only person that can help
you sensibly. A lawyer is no good because he can only see the
legal side. Please try at least one appointment, I know this will
get you onto the best track. God bless you.

Answer 3

stay with your hubby for the rest of your life remember your marriage vows taken before God. Don't throw it all away after only 15 years. Make the next 15 years better Love him even more.

Answer 4

I think we all need more info to answer this question adequately. A study shows that it is perfectly normal for a woman to fantasize at some point about another woman. Now if this is more than just fantasizing, then you need to look within yourself and see if a woman is what you are truly desiring. Most women with this problem are looking for something in a woman that they are missing in their relationship with their husbands. If you are truly interested in persuing a relationship with a woman than find a woman that you trust that has the same interests as you and give it a whirl.

Answer 5

You may just be curious. Talk with him about the way you feel. He may be open to the idea of letting another female into the bedroom(I know I would). whatever the case, don't hide it from him. It's secrets that hurt the marriage. If you don't wanna come right out and tell him your lesbian, just make hints to the fact. Point out good looking girls and look etc. Unless he's daft, he'll catch on,

Answer 6

First step is to tell your husband.

Some husbands embrace the fact that their wives are bi-curious and whatnot. He may be one of those. But it is not fair to leave him in the dark.

If he accepts it, you guys could really spice up your relationship by finding a nice young lady you are both interested in and whatnot.

And if he doesn't, well then you have a bit of a problem, but you owe it to him to tell him.

Answer 7

what is with the lesbo fad? i know some men can be pretty disappointing, but ladies, do we really have to do a 180 and go the other way, surely there is another guy out there that can do the trick.
you CAN be friends with a woman without having to do her. Nasty!

Answer 8

Tell Your husband.Then decide if You want to find out about a relationship with a woman .Your either with Your husband or Your not.It`s still cheating.You need to be honest with Yourself.There`s no point in living a lie.

Answer 9

No one "becomes" gay!! They either are or they ain't! Why did you get married? You must have wondered about your sexuality before now? I know a man who was gay but married because he wanted to appear straight. His life was hell and it destroyed his wife and kids when he finally admitted the truth. He regretted using her as a "beard" in the end.

Answer 10

well you have to be honest with yourself.. do you really like woman or do you just want to thrill things up
if you want to thrill things up maybe you should start looking for a sex therapist in your area.
if that's not the case maybe you should just be forward with him and keep it straight to the point sit him down and tell him how you feel and why you need this . he may take it hard but i think hell understand

Answer 11

The next step is to go to the doctor and explain your situation,, he will almost certainly diagnose you with " strapadicktome"
dont worry,, you are not alone