im a real quiet person and i dont know how to make conversations.
does the way you dress also goes along with it?
2006-08-27 10:36:39 · 15 answers · asked by Nafertiti 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you should leave clothes for the last thing
but only if someone has a problem with your clothes or
if you have a problem with theres
i learned a small thing from my friend about 4 years ago
"hi my name is ______, whats yours?"
it sounds weird but its like the only way you can start a conversation
at school at least
other than that.. try small talk...
i like your _____
what time is it____
how long have you worked here____
do you like it here____
today i was watching this cool movie called____
isnt _____ hot?
small talk usually gets you somewhere... other than
"my name is" thing
2006-08-27 10:41:55 · answer #1 · answered by Melody. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for one thing join a group in your community or at school doing something that you enjoy. It could be fashion, music, photography, recipes/cooking...etc. For example, I am 25 and I am joining a group at night at the local highschool for photography. It is something that I am interested in and interested in learning about. Naturally, I will meet people that I have something in common with that I can talk to, and eventually if I want to, make friends with. I am a quiet person too, and when I was in school felt the same way as you. School is very different than when you are all grown up like me. But still getting involved in volunteering and groups that you are interested in will help you make friends. Good luck!
2006-08-27 17:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, I suppose.
But I would think that if you are looking to make friends, you should steer clear of people who would care about how you dress. Find people with similar interests as you. I've found the best way for people to do this is to join a club at school or something. That way you are in a big group of people who share the same hobby or interest, and it's very easy to make conversation.
If you like sports, join a team. There is a great deal of comraderie when it comes to sports and whatnot.
Good luck! [=
2006-08-27 17:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm quiet too..
You can ask for help or ask a question in class and then say "My name is ____ by the way" and you should try to get to know the people that sit next to you.
2006-08-27 17:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something in common with that other person, like if you know about cars or movies, it's easy to strike up a conversation.
2006-08-27 17:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way a person dresses says a lot of who they are so make sure you pick your style properly
2006-08-27 17:42:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they way you dress doesn't matter i use to think that it did but it didn't.you need to just go stand next to someone and say hey & start a covirsation. i had a rough time macking friends too but i followed my advice & i have alot of friends.
2006-08-27 17:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by lollipop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just kinda talk about the moment..and kinda say "whatta you think?" after it. Then I liken it to another moment like it in my life and then say "has that ever happened to you?"
It's about making a common connection and inviting them to join.
2006-08-27 17:42:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was really shy when i was a kid but i always had one good friend no matter where i moved they just come to you. don't try too hard to make friends most people will let you down. look for honest people
2006-08-27 17:41:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take an acting acalss and join clubs. Help senior citizens and talk with them.
2006-08-27 17:38:59 · answer #10 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋