I made a new friend two weeks ago, he is a senior and im a sophomore and I think he is gay.The reason I think this is because he likes talking about his emotional feelings, he is a shy person, always tries to jump on my back, tells me to play with myself when im alone, and he is a grate looking guy with green eyes and does not have a girlfriend. I also notice him checking out other guys when they pass by him. what do you think? what should I do if he ever tries to do something to me? Im ok with gay people but if he ask me stuff like if I want to go out with him, should I keep him as a friend?
2006-08-27 10:28:59 · 12 answers · asked by Party Animal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yeh your freind is def gay and if he ask you "out" then you should say no you a straighty
2006-08-27 10:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by helse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is pushing himself on you and likes to talk to you about things that is none of is business. Blow him off, so he can go blow someone else for sure. HE IS GAY. If you do not feel good around him, then it is not a very good friendship. You already sound like you do not trust him, and do not like his inappropriate behavior. It is up to you to handle this in a way you feel most appropriate, but I would just say, "Look, this is not working, and I would rather that you get another friend for now", or something like that. Otherwise, you may have to get harder with him, and just say, "I would rather hang out with my girlfriends right now", hope you understand. My daughter had gay friends in school and they all had a good time. She was not gay, but she was the type of person that liked the "goofy" things they did, and still had her straight friends. I guess it is just an individual thing. This was in the early 80's, and several of them died right away from AIDS, no one really knew a lot then about that disease. She is a nurse now.
2006-08-27 17:50:02 · answer #2 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, Im shy and Im not afraid to talk about my emotions and im not gay. I dont check guys out as the walk past me though.
He could be gay or he might be straight. I doesnt really matter. If he's fun to hang out with, just be friends.
2006-08-27 17:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by chuckdiesel99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so what if he is gay should that keep you from being his friend I mean if he is gay and you aren't into it just tell him that you will be his friend but you just would rather him not try to hit on you it always worked for me when I didn't want to date one of my female friends. By the way I am bisexual.
2006-08-27 17:35:01 · answer #4 · answered by leespitt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~!!DEepBlUeS... it is not a sin to love someone. Inlove ;( you need to think for yourself and reevaluate your friends. If you have friends that you are trying impress that is sad. Of course be his friend. Let him know your straight if he ever asks that question. It is simple. Don't worry about what any religious or uppity person tells you. You are a big boy.
2006-08-29 15:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,that dude's gay alright. If he ever comes at you that way,just tell him that you don't get down like that but you don't mind having him as a friend so he will know he can never cross that line with you.
2006-08-27 17:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by T.Mack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is GAY...
sometimes gay people can be the best of friends, but if he asks you out, simply say no cause you dont go that way. but keep him as a friend, but beware, cause if everyone finds out he is gay, an you're always with him, that image might rub off on you
best of luck (:
2006-08-27 17:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should keep him as a friend real friends wouldnt ditch each other and even though it might offend him u should ask him if he is what u think he is
2006-08-27 17:38:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he ask you to go out with you refuse him.it's a sin to have sex with same sex.besides you're not gay and if your gf will find out that you will be in big trouble
2006-08-27 17:43:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you have a pretty good idea of who he is, and what you need to do.
2006-08-31 14:35:41 · answer #10 · answered by Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋