this girl keeps bugging me...?

Question

everytime she emails me, or IM"s me she is always like "whut are you doing, whats you phones number, can i have you friends IM"s, and she like stalks me, and no she keeps calling me her best friend. all my other friends have already told her off, and now she wont leave me alone. ive blocked her, but she still gets through. and now that school is getting ready to start, she wants to hang out pretty much 24/7. so how do i get her off my back and out of my life, without telling her off??? conversation ideas even?

Answer 1

Sorry, the only way that you can do it, is to be mean.

I met a girl named Karen at the unemployment office. I am nice to everyone, so I was nice to her. She suggested we hang out or go apply to some of these factory jobs together. She seemed ok, but I thought what the heck, I could use another friend. Well, she ended up pretty much doing what you said this girl is doing to you, stalking me. She called everyday almost 5 times a day, she would ask me 'what r u doing?' 'what are you eating?' constantly bothering me. She even some how got my work number and called me at work. I was recording minutes for a meeting that I was in at work when the phone rang, I had to answer it and it was her, I told her I can't talk right now and hung up. I couldn't believe that she would call me at work. Even my bf thought that she was crazy. That night when I got home I called her and told her off. There were many times that I would nicely try to give her the hint to back off, but she was too stun I guess. As I said, I am a really nice person and I didn't want to hurt her feelings, but she was getting out of hand. She came across very controlling and very much like a stalker. I got to the point where I didn't like her anymore. I told her don't ever do that again (about calling me at work). She was so stun, she said 'oh, sorry did you get into trouble?' I lied and said, 'YES, I did! And you almost got me fired. Don't ever call me again, at work or at home!' I had to do something mean because this was the final straw and it worked!! I haven't been bothered by her since. I felt the same as you, that I wanted to find another way to get her to back off, but sometimes you just gotta do what you gotta do, suck it up and be mean. My bf even said that he would do it for me but I feel better that I did it myself.

Answer 2

'She may admires you, don't be to hard on her. I know she has to feels embarrass when you'll are setting her straight, she playing it off as tough she's not getting it. In time she'll absorb your message and leave you alone. Tell your friends not to be rude to her this won't make matters any better for you. Just be cool, and civil you don't want to make an enemy.

Please excuse me, I did not see the part where you said you had blocked her and she still got through to you against your wishes. I do think now she is being too persistent even to the point of showing you no respect, you do seem to have a problem. You may need to talk to your school councilor about it. Once they know they'll see that she's the problem not you.

Answer 3

Your picture is a girl, so I guess it is a girl that is wanting to be friends with you, girl thing. She is probably lonely, but you know, this sounds like she is abusing you. She may be jealous and just playing around with you. If she is just wanting a "reaction", you must shout it out. This is going to be embarrassing to her, put she is asking for it. When she does that again, just turn around and in front of everyone say "NO", they won't know what you are talking about, and that will teach her. You have to do something drastic. Be sure you are in a big crowd. She has to be embarrassed or she won't quit.

Answer 4

you would be complaining pondering the only day you spend which incorporate your pals are Friday and Saturday. i've got toddlers, artwork 2 jobs and easily spend 12 hours at a time at abode- maximum of that spent sound asleep. the sometime i do no longer artwork is Sunday. you do no longer look as busy as you think you're so end complaining. guy up, in case you do no longer might desire to do it basically say "No," in the different case suck it up and sacrifice your friday night to help an further individual.

Answer 5

start ignorin her..put her on invis permenatly, block her number from your phone.. just act like you never even knew the girl...dont talk to her at school and if she tries to talk to you then ignore her or tell her you have something else to do... but if you really have to, then just tell her nicely what all she has been doing that has been gettin on your nerves and ask her nicely to lighten up a bit...she probly doesnt even realize what she is doing so be nice to her....and if she keeps on doin it, have your parents and her parents have a conversation about it... if she gets mad, then let her get mad.. .. sounds like you do need a bit of privacy!! hope this helps! good luck!!!!

Answer 6

Just tell her that she is suffocating you! Be nice and gentle when you say that. Tell her you wouldn't feel it right to give out your friend's IM's and that she really needs to work on making friends for herself. She wants to hang out with you so that she can meet some other people...maybe not a bad idea.

Answer 7

How did she get through the blocker?
My advice would be change your e-mail.
And when she wants to hang out after school, say you can't.
Block her phone calls, and hope she can take a hint.

Answer 8

Tell her that she don't know you like and to stop with all the weird things that she is doing. Sooner or later she will get the picture

Answer 9

You must not want her gone badly enough. When I want someone gone, I get very creative. If they don't back off then, it means they were still breathing when I buried them and dug their way out.......time for plan B.

Answer 10

WELL, U DONT HAVE TO BE MAN ABOUT AND JUST TELL HER HOW U HONESTLY FEEL ABOUT HER AND JUST TEL HER THE TRUTH.