MY FRiEND iS DATiNG A PLAYER, AND i TRiED TO TELL HER BUT NOW SHE THiNKS THAT i LiKE HiM, AND iM TRYiNG TO STEAL HiM FROM HER. & SHE WONT LiSTEN, SHOULD i GET PROOF? OR NOT... i DONT WANT HER TO GET HURT. WHAT SHOULD i DO?
2006-08-27 10:05:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
...BUT i DONT LiKE HiM.
2006-08-27 10:05:39 · update #1
...BUT i DONT LiKE HiM.
2006-08-27 10:05:40 · update #2
best thing you can do is not put yourself in their business let her fall because that is the only way she will learn.
2006-08-27 10:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by Lib 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you have tried being a good friend telling her the truth since she won't listen and she's getting ideas in her head that your wanting him let her find out for herself I know she's your friend and you don't want her to get hurt but if you keep on and on trying to tell her about him or you try to get proof you could ruin your friendship because she may feel you wanted to hurt her so just leave it alone and let her find out on her own that way you can't get blame for wanting to start trouble, wanting her man or wanting to hurt her
2006-08-27 17:13:42 · answer #2 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may already know that he is a player and is just embarrased to admitt it. maybe even to herself. as a friend you need to be supportive and help her get over the problem, not get into her business. you are building a wall between the two of you if you keep telling her this or this guy isnt good for her. she has a brain too. she is so in love or lust that right now she just needs support. she may be suffering from low self esteem and needs encouragement to realize her value. if shes too good for the guy she wont date him. she needs to understand that. you dont have to support her relationship with the guy, just keep reminding her that she is important to you and she deserves the best. keep your opinions about the guy to yourself, or rather let her know that your opinion of him is just an opinion. eventually she will see. your her friend, not her mother.
2006-08-27 17:20:52 · answer #3 · answered by coffeebabyea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately the best thing you can do is just stand back and let it happen she is not going to believe you no matter what you say you tried to warn her and that's the best you can do just be their for her when she finally finds out for herself. unfortunately getting hurt is part of growing up.
2006-08-27 17:15:07 · answer #4 · answered by parrotsarenoisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u tried telling her,now leave it alone.i know it's going to be hard, but once she finds out the the truth,she'll know that you were right and how you were such a good friend for trying to looke out for her
2006-08-27 17:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by ♥LiL MiZ THANG ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look which ever way u do it she is going 2 get hurt so go and talk 2 her
2006-08-27 17:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by ♥KyKy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough
just wait she'll find out eventully and learn the hard way
it may sound harsh but its the only way she'll learn and trust you again
2006-08-27 17:09:31 · answer #7 · answered by gymnastcutii19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋