I mean seriously they dont even kno that u like them.dont even take a hint. its kinda stupid. u kno.
2006-08-27 09:48:58 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Same reason they think we're stupid and so on and so on.
2006-08-27 09:50:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once bitten, twice shy...
Men aren't stupid, just tired of being burned and trying to figure out the games of some women.
You have to say what you mean and what you feel. There is nothing worse than somebody flirting, pretending they have the hots for you and then when you tell them you like them or ask them out, they turn around and say I already have someone or some other excuse. Too many women play these games to be validated that they are still desirable and wonder why when they do this to someone they really want, they don't recieve the desired response.
2006-08-27 10:00:43 · answer #2 · answered by curiousandsmiley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know that women talk in code language? And it isn't all that easy to decipher.
I have a solution. You make the move. Don't drop hints, and expect somebody to play detective to figure it out.
Oh, yeah, different women drop different hints. So on one end if a man acts on the hint it becomes a lunch date, and on the other end if the same man acts on the same "hint" from another woman, it turns into a sexual harassment lawsuit.
Don't play games, ok?
2006-08-27 09:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by powhound 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've noticed women aren't very good at giving hints that guys notice. We're built differently; something that would tell you that a guy's interested in you doesn't necessarily let a guy know you're interested in him. A girl liked me for a while, and I liked her, but I didn't even know she liked me, and I was actually LOOKING for signs. Just go up and ask him out if you want to date him.
2006-08-27 09:53:54 · answer #4 · answered by Jeremy W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh? what was the question? Just kidding. To answer your question..... after years of being told when she says no she means yes when she really means no, guys have finally got it but it seems I guess that sometimes no does mean yes so how can we tell the difference?
We can't so just lay it on the line tell him you like him cause like I always tell my wife "I'm not a mind reader" hey "We are not mind readers" Makes sense I hope
2006-08-27 09:56:19 · answer #5 · answered by Eye of Innocence 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Psychologically speaking, men are unable to pick up on the emotions and body language of others. It is a natural instinct for women to be able to do this. Our brains are built differently.
2006-08-27 09:51:32 · answer #6 · answered by onejazzyjul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't understand why women (some women) expect men to be mind readers instead of just coming out and saying what they want us to know... i guess i'm one of those clueless men... but actually, the reason we don't pick up on things like that is because we are selfish and all wrapped up in ourselves
2006-08-27 09:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
While we're at it, why are women afraid to just say, "I like you" instead of going through all of these games thinking that men will guess what they're thinking?
2006-08-27 09:51:50 · answer #8 · answered by Stuart 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all guys are clueless if u like a guy go for it and ask him to hang out dont weaght till they do it it takes for ever,trust me i know
2006-08-27 09:53:53 · answer #9 · answered by Melly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why give hints why not just tell them. many guys will pretend to be stupid to people who play guessing games.
2006-08-27 10:06:47 · answer #10 · answered by Lib 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well we men can be clueless my girlfriend is always tr yin to tell me how she feels without tell in me how she feels and well i dont understand her sometI'mes and then she gets pissed off what im tryin to say is that we (men) dont get it. if u like someone be obvious.
2006-08-27 09:53:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋