Well...here's my story. In year 2003, I met this guy, and we were GREAT friends, we liked the same things, and we always laughed together in class (which caused problems) anyways, my other best friend (who is a girl) has really low self esteem probs. So my guyfriend started crushing over her. I thought that was cute, but it started to get out of control. This guy kept talking about her ALL THE TIME, I liked it at first, but that was all that we talked about, and then he started to ask random things about her, I never told him, but then a little while later, he insulted me a lot and didn't give a rats @$$ about me! It was hurting so much, then we started high school and it was just terrible through out the year! When I started grade 10, he said something really really really bad to me and I started to ignore him. He was just sucking all of my time and energy out, but now he's trying to get my attention and he's being all kind to me. I am still ignoring him though, is this wut u'd do?
2006-08-27 09:18:47 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
of course! Don't let a guy treat you or a friend of yours any way disrepectfully. It might be because of his age, so if he matures a bit more, then maybe give him a chance, but for now leave him alone. There are better guys out there.
2006-08-27 09:21:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar situation, and it did turn out to be his age. But, but really careful about this choice, if he really hurt you, chances are that he's going to do it again. But, this is really up to you. Of course, you know the situation better, how do you feel about this? Do YOU want to give him another chance? Or do you not want to? Just think about it, and life will figure things out. Being a teenager and going through puberty can be a real mix up, but life will figure itself out. You've just got to work hard!
2006-08-27 09:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sweety, don't open yourself back up to the unstable dude. Don't ignore him either just keep a polite distance. Say hello, say goodbye. but don't bother with hanging out with him and befriending him like you once did. He WILL treat you bad again. If after a long long while he proves that he's grown up... then you can decide if you want to be his friend.
2006-08-27 09:24:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes sweetie continue to ignore this guy. He was using you to get to another. Think about it, he's a loser any way if he had to use some one to get to some one else. And, he had no concern for your feelings at all. Don't put yourself back in that situation.
2006-08-27 09:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by Vida 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Ignorance is the key to loneliness. But don't ignore him, tell him to go away. You can't let him bother you, like you've said, you've had enough. Speak up and it's time for you to tell him to buzz off. Okay? That's all you have to do.
2006-08-27 09:21:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Sit him down and have a serious talk, let him know he hurt you badly and you are not looking for a repeat permormance. Demand an answer why he felt he had to reat you so poorly.
Based on his answer will depend on your choice, like if he was impressing someone?
2006-08-27 09:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by Miz_Kassandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that was a show for someone else. There is a saying you did it to me once shame on you, you did it to me twicw shame on me but you wont do it a third time. Good Luck. Maybe you should feed him with a long handle spoon. I wouldn't trust him.
2006-08-27 09:29:29 · answer #7 · answered by Precious1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want, but don't get duped again. Personally, as young as you are, you should be going out with lots of different guys.
2006-08-27 09:22:08 · answer #8 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plenty of other fish in the sea, so fine one that will respect you and your feelings. If this guy was rude to you once, odds are that he will be rude again and who needs that in their life?
2006-08-27 09:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignoring a person is something that is done by a person who is not adult enough to be in a relationship.
2006-08-27 09:22:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋