How can I help my little sister with her exboyfriend problem?

Question

When my sister was a softmore she went out with a senior in High School. Everyone can tell they fell in love because at school you never saw them apart. They started going out in the frist mounth of the school year. Then at the end of his senior year he broke up with her. He told me beacuse he didnt want to break her heart. Then I found out on the last day of school he told her he loved her and wrote it in her yearbook. Its been two years since that happen. She told everyone she's over him but I dont think thats true.There are some sings that she is not over him yet. Like She asked me if I talked to him lately or have I seen him around. She went out with a couple of boys since him but after a mounth she breaks up with them its like she's scared or something. I found out two weeks ago she found him on myspace. She keeps on asking me if she should talk to him or what if he doesnt reamber her because its been two years and what if he doent want to talk to her. I dont know what to do!!

Answer 1

I don't really think that there is much that you can do. Sometimes it takes a long time to get over people. She'll come around in her own time. Just be there for her if she ever needs a shoulder to cry on or someone to confide in. That's the best gift you can ever give to her.

Answer 2

Unfortunately, some folks can persist beyond all rationality that something that isn't going to happen will happen. You relax. Tell your sister she's a good person, she's worthwhile and valuable, and you like her. It may take quite a while for the light to dawn on her.

Answer 3

well maybe she wants to say in touch with him..now thats a bad idea but i really think thats a bad idea.that doesnt mean she still loves him she just still thinks about him which is understandable so go easy on her.what she feels is normal

Answer 4

u go get him to bang u then u & ur sister compare experience.