I mean its disrespectful to your wife (if she doesnt like it) RUDE AS FUCKK, and its visual cheating.
I mean if your wife was there with you, would you still look at porn? Provided she doesnt like you looking at it.
2006-08-27 08:54:32 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am ASHAMED at all you women who accept this male behavior of "men like visuals" and bs alike. My god, your are brainwashed, I think its so disrectful to your wives men, would you like it if she looked at a hotter NAKED HUGE COCKED man?
2006-08-27 09:02:01 · update #1
My wife and I watch it all the time. It's an aphrodesiac.
2006-08-27 08:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 3⤋
needless to say it truly is no longer ok! Is he insane? To lamely say that 'its nature' and take no account of your emotions on the situation is the very lowest subject he might desire to do. I strongly merchandise to the singles sites because it is basically a pre-cursor to an affair too. The porn is objectionable even if some couples locate it ok. i for my section believe that if a individual seems at it a procedures too plenty, it reflects on their recommendations-set in the direction of intercourse and humanity ordinarily. He has de-custom it to the quantity the place he gets his kicks from looking at nameless persons flapping approximately on the show screen! healthy human beings see porn as a stupid little bit of nonsense for unhappy youngsters who've a solid wrist. maximum folk might particularly be doing it than looking at others doing it! I might desire to assert that your husband desires to take a solid look at what is going on - this guy needless to say has subjects and that i worry you are the only that is going to be emotionally battered interior the top. Take inventory. This guy does no longer appreciate you or the different lady - you and those porn stars are purely products. What you do with all of this relies upon on even if if he's a robust husband in another appreciate. solid good fortune.
2016-11-05 21:51:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really isn't a problem with it to me. Sex is a natural part of life. Everyone has sexual fantasies and it's really just a part of who we are. A guy watching porn isn't really any different than me watching a raunchy daytime soap episode or both of us together watching a sex scene in a movie. Sex is a regular part of life.
It isn't disrespectful to anyone, because the men and women in those porn videos know what they are doing and are already objectifying themselves. I heard this same crap coming from some feminists I know. We women objectify ourselves just as much as men do by putting on make-up and meeting society's standards of beauty. We all look at attractive members of the opposite sex when we pass them on the street or elsewhere. It's human nature.
The idea of 'visual cheating', I mean come on that's just silly. I see men at least everyday that I find sexually attractive. It isn't cheating unless you are with someone else. A video isn't a person.
2006-08-28 16:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by britney 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Thankfully my husband doesn't look at porn he doesn't now and he didn't when we were dating and it's not true that all men are the same and that all men like that junk it isn't true all men and women both are different some men and women like porn and some don't my husband and I don't like porno and it isn't apart of our lives because we chose that before you and your spouse get married you will know rather their like that or not and if I found out that my husband was like that we wouldn't had got married because I feel porno isn't only disrespectful to women but it can also be disrespectful to men when your with a person you want them to want you and be thinking about you you don't want to be having sex with your husband or wife and be thinking about another person that isn't right if a man or woman has to look at porno just to get aroused or get excited to be with their spouse then they have no right being with that person if they don't satisfy him or her they shouldn't had married that person to begin with and yeah I do agree with you it is visual cheating beause it is having a fantasy about another person and having sexual thoughts about a person when you marry your spouse your suppose to love him or her only and want to be with that person their is no sense in having a fantasy about someone else your never going to be with that person it's a complete waste of time and it's really dumb you should want to be with your spouse and only anyone willing to watch porno and have fantasies shouldn't had got married in the 1st place it shows they wasnt ready to be committed it shows they still have thoughts about different men or women if you got to have your porn and fantasys you don't need to be married because marriage is about commitment!!!
2006-08-27 09:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I respect your right to be so righteous. Like the saying goes, "Nothing is so righteous as a reformed w****." What's your story. Not all women have a problem with porn. I would rather my husband jerk off to porn that to run around town cheating. I don't feel less of a woman because of porn. You obviously have a great many hangups in your closed mind.
2006-08-27 10:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by Alaska 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What gives you the right to judge others for what they accept in their lives? Just because some of us aren't ashamed, doesn't make it wrong. Maybe you're ashamed out of insecurity issues with yourself? And for any woman to believe their man never looks at porn, Ya Right! They just hide it better.
2006-08-27 09:30:20 · answer #6 · answered by KC 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Me and my husband watch it together, it brings more to the table we learn something we have not tried together. Society see it as gross and wrong to watch but if you are of age and not doing illegal behavior that is wrong like some of these child porn freaks do than there is nothing wrong with it. It shows you can have more fun and it strikes up a conversation about what you actually want in sex without feeling embrassed. It not that they are cheating if they are watching it, course the woman on there are beautiful but they don't know them or can have them its just a fantasy for them and what they would like to do to spice things up in the hay. Its knowledge so they can bring something new to you.
2006-08-27 12:16:17 · answer #7 · answered by hopelovesu2004 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
funny i came across this issue. when i was married my husband always was watching this ****..it was very discouraging to know this and yet he would hide it so obviously he felt it was wrong or somthing who the hell knows...but i hated it very much...i on the other hand cant stand it even know that we are divorced our son has caught him looking at it online and on the tv and he has a damn girlfriend now and she doesnt like him doing this. so i think its wrong and its stupid if your married that is why we have spouses or partners. and well i am with a woman now and i couldnt be happier...no porn only love and great sex...lol take care...
2006-08-27 09:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by flower_child 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
the way i see it, is like this. if the woman is uncomfortable with her husband looking at porn then he should respect her wishes. it is up to each individual couple what they are comfortable with. but she should also be willing to make some compromises to ensure that her husband does not have a reason to want to look at porn.
2006-08-27 09:13:07 · answer #9 · answered by bumblebee 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he clearly had a sexual dysfunction before he got married.. guys that look at porn before marriage there's that greater chance he'll look at it after marriage.. and it is very disrespectful. but temptation is powerful and even when there's guilt involved.. some guys need serious therapy to overcome their self gratifications of porn...
if you knew he did it before going into a serious relationship.. it's something you accepted in order to be with him.. marry a man that you love for who he is.. not for who you can make him become.
2006-08-27 09:03:05 · answer #10 · answered by Min 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wives do NOT own their mates. How is this a problem to the wife? Why would a woman be jealous of a magazine? Does she just want to own everything about him...well, it ain't gonna happen. And why is this disrespectful? Some wives are never happy, are they?
2006-08-27 08:59:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋