Sorry for the nature of this question - but can someone please give me so advise? I'm really having trouble with the women on top position. Everytime my partner and I have tried - he slips out. What is the best way to do it? With him sitting up - and me just sitting on him?
Sorry for this!
2006-08-27 07:52:55 · 16 answers · asked by Feeling sick 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I'm 22 and he's 23. I was trying to use most appropiate terms for the postion!
2006-08-27 08:16:23 · update #1
This is a common problem and no need for apologies for asking. Have your partner to lie flat - not sitting up - you get on top and lean forward onto your hands - like put your hands on each side of his head - try not to slide up too far and that should prevent it from slipping out. You may also want to try to spread your legs a little further out and that will prevent you from coming up too far sometimes. Good luck
2006-08-27 08:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dont worry we all need advice sometimes, best way is him laying flat on his back, perhaps your going up to high, with the movements, when your on top you havn't got much area(shall we say)to move over so try not going so high. otherwise i could suggest moving up or down a bit as in lower down his body towards his legs as sometimes wriggling around till you feel comfy is something that helps. also are you laying on top of him or sitting up straight, try the opposite way to what your doing. hope you get it sorted, the best thing with positions is to find what works for you, for the life of us me and my hubby still cant do it standing, and talk about it to. hope this has been of some help.
2006-08-27 08:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by muffinplattsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him lay on his back. If he's erect, it should be easy for you to get on top, kneeling over him, and have him slide in. Then just rock back and forth instead of going up and down. He could also try putting a pillow right under his bum, so his thighs are off the bed. Try having him push up into you, as well. You can also lean forward and almost lay on top of him, supporting yourself on your elbows.
2006-08-27 08:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by Moxie1313 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could try a couple of things -- him in a slightly reclined position, like propped up with a few cushions / pillows. Or maybe on a couch, with him sitting back comfortably with his legs stretched out resting on something.
Also, if you can push yourself up so that you are more vertical than horizontal, that might help.
2006-08-27 08:02:56 · answer #4 · answered by Joya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well put it this way it is too much of ur problem bc ur man isnt long enough to stay in the hole but do it doggy style or when ur on top u do all the work and try not to take long strokes or with him on top but good luck
2006-08-27 08:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i find if you sit on top of your partner facing away from him so he is looking at your back and rock back and forth its real nice hits the spot and he wont slip out and he will enjoy it to and your in controll too even better
2006-08-27 08:03:10 · answer #6 · answered by kerrybridle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
You dont have to just 'rock back and forth' as lots of people said. Just angle your hips so your back is arched a bit, that way your hips are more parallel and he wont slip out so easy.
Its just practice.
2006-08-27 17:13:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you two? He has ED or your lifting youself too high
you don't make sense
"I'm having trouble with women on top" that's a mans statement.
then you say "he slips out" that means your on top.
2006-08-27 08:13:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your suggestion is probably best. This is very common. Or just let him enter and you grind. Also put your hand down there as a guide to prevent this.
2006-08-27 08:25:01 · answer #9 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For this situation, "doggie style" works best.
You may also want to try lying on your stomach and have enter you from behind..(sort of a "lying doggie" if you will! LOL
Good luck, and hey...don't be embarrassed
2006-08-27 07:57:19 · answer #10 · answered by ninetynine4one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋