well my boyfriend said that i couldn't tell anyone that we were together,but i told my best friend cuz me and him (my boyfriend) were going through some troubles...and i needed someone to talk to. I told him that i told my mom about me and him and he totally FREAKED! so how am i suppose to tell him about my best friend knowing?!?!?
Do you think I should tell him I told my best friend or not?
2006-08-27 07:30:17 · 16 answers · asked by Tomboyalc123 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
ok.....i like all your answers so far but i DO love him but lately he has been saying " I being confidential, so im not tellin u anything anymore" isn't that stupid or what?!?!?
2006-08-27 07:38:53 · update #1
NO SEX!!! IM NOT HAVING SEX YET!!! IM A VIRGIN!!!
2006-08-27 07:47:18 · update #2
I see no reason why he wants to keep you and him a secret. He must be up to NO GOOD!
Never be with a guy who does not want other people knowing about you and him...that means he must have another girlfriend or he is up to no good.
2006-08-27 07:33:55 · answer #1 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay, he either 1.) is ashamed to be seen with you because he feels he is better looking than you... or 2.) he may have a girlfriend already... its one or the other... unless he is secretly gay... but I don't know him, so I couldn't tell you. But its definitly one of those options. My advice: Don't go out with him. He is a jerk. He sounds possessive, and that is not a good thing. Next, he will be telling you that your best friend is no longer allowed to be your best friend. Run.
2006-08-27 07:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a boyfriend like that before he acted like we weren't going together so i dumped him, because if he loves you then he should want the world to know that you are his, and shouldnt hold it back i think that it was a good idea to tell your best friend and your mom, and plus think if no one knows that you are going out with him then someone could come up and ask you out and i dont know you but you probably dont want to just say no, knowing that he is going to ask why and then what are you going to tell that boy,
so you need to go and tell your boyfriend that if he truely loves you that he wants everyone to know that yall are going out and if he dont think that that is what he want then you say its over because you want to be in a relationship that everyone know that you are in a relationship.
2006-08-27 08:08:20 · answer #3 · answered by Princezz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, he should N O T be telling you to not tell ppl about him and you going together. thats wrong right there....
i personally think you should break up with the jerk because he will try and control you. so you can tell him about your best friend, but be aware that he will freak, so you might just want toi forget him
2006-08-27 07:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by Megg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You having sex with him? you do know he probably has another girl on the side, either that or he is embarassed by you.
You do realise this will never go beyond anyhting physical for him. Even if you love him, its best to leave him.
2006-08-27 07:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by WhiteHat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should seriously question why no one is supposed to know that you're together. telling him that your friend knows should be the very least of your issues at this point. rule of thumb, if you have to hide it, don't do it. love is supposed to make you want to shout it from the mountain tops. you deserve better hun!
2006-08-27 07:35:01 · answer #6 · answered by Eos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What in the hell are you talking about? Are you a parent? Are you pregnant? You are in the Pregnancy and parenting category, take this stupid gibberish to the dating section. This section is not for idiot preteens, It for us parents to talk about how stupid our teens are. (Which is so apparent since none of you can figure this out) Move on adolescent...
2006-08-27 08:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your boyfreind is ashamed of your relationship if he truly likes you than he shouldn't be afraid of showing your love for each other and if he freaked out , you should asked "why are soo ashamed of our relationship? and if he doesn;t answer you, then he's not the right guy for you
2006-08-27 07:34:55 · answer #8 · answered by helse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds a bit immature, perhaps he is worried about his friends ribbing him about having a "girly".
On the other hand, if he is is older than 16, dump him, he's a loser.
2006-08-27 07:51:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should tell him you shouldn't have sercets. Why doesn't he want anyone to know? that is weird he should be really happy and want to tell everyone. If he don't want anyone to know that you should really think if you want to be with him because that is not fair to you. Good Luck.
2006-08-27 07:38:15 · answer #10 · answered by tanyat_1998 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋