Maybe you are only going after the girls that think they are as good looking as you are and they think they can get someone even better looking than you who has a bundle of money, too.
2006-08-27 07:31:42
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answered by Azriel 3
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Hopefully you are being honest with yourself and your friends are being honest with you. But speaking from personal experience, people can be intimidated by intelligence, looks and any number of other things. I finally discovered I was being too picky. This may or may not be the same for you. Or maybe you just haven't found that person who is perfect for you.
However, you just have to examine how you are approaching people, how you react when they approach you and where you are trying to meet them. Bottom line is, there is someone for everyone. Do this experiment, in the coming week, strike up a conversation with every female you meet who you think you might like, and all those girls staring at you, go over and introduce yourself. No woman with half a brain is truly going to turn down a guy with all the qualities you claim to possess.
2006-08-27 14:44:55
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answered by jeadani 3
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While allot of women may DREAM of a guy like you asking them out, when it actually happens, the majority will panic, or think its a prank.
The sad truth is, a lot of women have varying degrees of low self esteem- so when someone they've been hoping will ask them out finally does, they don't believe it.
Unfortunately, this can really limit a guy when he's looking for a girlfriend. Especially when it is well known that he posses all these qualities.
So here's my advice to you- go out side your regular social bubble- your community- and find someone who knows absolutely nothing about you.
Here's an example of something you could do (and it does work- surprisingly well, I might add): If you see a stranger on the street that you are remotely attracted to, get their attention (politely of course) and introduce yourself. Be a complete gentleman, introduce yourself, and tell them a little about yourself- some of your best moments and some of your worst moments, your happiest, and your saddest. A cafe or some other book lounge might be a good idea- not necessarily right on the street, they're usually busy, but maybe in line at the grocery store, somewhere they're not likely to be in a hurry, or where they have time that could be spent better than just standing there. Then, ask if maybe you could meet up somewhere with them later in the week (leave this up to them) to learn a little about them.
I know this works from my own personal experience- it's how my husband and I met -actually, he was the one who introduced himself first.
2006-08-27 14:40:43
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answered by aht12086 2
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Well, with all of these "extremes" that you mention it does sound quite intimidating. Girls probably feel that they can't add up, that you probably want someone as perfect as you and they can never be that.
Also, there's nothing hotter than a guy who is hot but doesn't know it and the problem is... you know it! So you may come off as conceited and no self respecting woman can dig that. Maybe you need to "uglify" yourself? lol I dunno. Just don't let on that you know you're "all that". Don't be too confident or you will come off as cocky and arrogant.
It's hard being beautiful! (so I hear)... See? I didn't let on that I THINK I'm beautiful (even tho I do haha). you just have to act more modest. Good luck.
2006-08-27 14:35:51
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answered by Caramella 4
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Well when I see a woman with those qualities, I just assume she's taken. And attractive guys have a tendency to go from girl to girl. I once heard a female strategy from a friend. "Date handsome guys, and marry a bald guy with a job. Somebody who can't get better than you."
Woman like to be the most attractive in a relationship.
They may like you but, they'll be jealous if you're better looking and smart enough to know it.
I recommend you find a nerd-girl.
2006-08-27 14:39:25
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answered by Paklo 2
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Well, I'm someone who is considered "beautiful", and I would not date a man who expects women to chase after them.
If you expect women to talk to you first, ask you out, etc--then thats not good.
It seems like you are basing everything about on your Looks..My mom taught me that is not Looks that matter but CHARACTER.
Look at Beyonce, she's not dating the most handsome man in the world--even though she get any man she wants. She obviously values her man's talent and other things..
Real women dont only go after Looks--I dont. I personally dont want a man who looks better than me, because I want to be "the woman" in the relationship, versus being with a man who expects me to bend over backwards to please him--simply because his family has kissed his behind his whole life for being "cute".
If youre not ready for marriage--truth is is BEST to remain single and celibate. All these people have Herpes, Genital Warts, etc because of casual sex and boyfriend/girlfiend relationships..Maybe if you follow God, Pray, and remain Pure--God will send you a Wife who is the Woman of Your Dreams.
Listen, if you REALLY want some happiness and Peace, go to this site below...
Peace
2006-08-27 15:38:27
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answered by Plus-Sized &Proud 4
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Are you the type that would prefer that the girl approach you? Many women will look at you as a sign to let you know that they are interested and that you are welcome to come and talk to them. I have been told the same thing (i'm intimidating to others and that makes me unapproachable). Try being the aggressor. I personally, would never approach a guy because I feel it's not "lady-like" (oldschool up-bringing) and maybe that's the opinion of most women as well.
2006-08-27 14:33:34
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answered by SmartyPants 5
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there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance. No one likes arrogance. Have you ever met a girl that thought she was all that. Sometimes people do not even realise how they come across to other people. Ask a friend for a candid answer. Make sure you can take the answer.
2006-08-27 14:54:17
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answered by lobo 4
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Girls like natural guys, who are humble. They don't go for someone who is constantly talking good things about themselves, even if they are true. And they don't like guys who believe they are too much for them. That's a complete turn off. Maybe you should see how you behave around them. I haven't met any good-looking, independent, intelligent, funny and interesting who are alone if they are also nice.
2006-08-27 14:45:35
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answered by mnela2000 2
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I'm going to share a piece of advice with you. It's called the "Approachability Factor", and while you may be intelligent and handsome your approacability factor may be zero.
Try working on it. First step: Smile everywhere.
Even if you think you look like a complete idiot. Smile. Make sure people see this smile of yours.
Trust me, and smile.
2006-08-27 14:32:08
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answered by bakergrl5 2
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