are all husbands insensitive after being married?

Answer 1

Every man is different, this can have allot to do with their how well the two work together. (partenership). it takes working together understanding one on other needs. but for most, men are not emotional, they are thinkers and problem solvers. women are the sensitive ones, thats one reason we need to share our feeling, which is why women have girl friends to vent out frustration. men from my experience don't like to open up emotionaly. understanding the opposite sex is very difficult. as for the men to understand women. both have this problem understanding each other. as well as women understanding men.

Answer 2

Depends on your demands on him, your definition of "insensitive" and your attitude towards his needs. He's usually the same guy before you married him. Is he expected to keep on the tux even after the wedding? Is he now your slave/personal servant and have to only take care of your needs and to hell with his? Can't he just be himself? Are you also being "insensitive" to his needs? Do you even know what he wants or expects from the marriage? Does that matter to you?

Being a wife is not a fairy tale...and neither is being a husband, apparently. Welcome to the real world.

Answer 3

No. My husband of only four weeks is more sensitive to my needs and wants since we've gotten married. It's called wanting to have a successful marriage.
Sounds like the guy that you are referring to doesn't really care. That's just my opinion, so take it for what's it's worth. I've been married only three times.

Answer 4

No, some get better. Women become insensitive too. I'm a passionate romantic, she's a piece of frozen Halibut.

Answer 5

Most likely yes.. Husbands want nothing better that a drinkin/ fishin buddy, and can never understand why his wife doesn't want to play this role. Men tend to have very soft hearts when it comes to their pride, so they don't usually know what they feel, becuase they aren't as in tune like women are with their feelings. My husband dragged me up the world' s tallest lighthouse in Mexico, with 1 in of water in the bottle, and I was wearing flip flops, becuase we left the hotel, with the beach in mind, and ended up hiking up extreme terrain, with the shoes I was wearing, Temps and Humidity very high that afternoon. It was awefiul! So I know what your talking about, I could go on with stories, but I wont

Answer 6

No, they are not. I hate to sound so blunt here, but what changed in you since you married? Are you both communicating the way you need to with eachother, and really listening to eachother? There may be things he sees in you that you do not see in yourself, and vice versa. Use eachother in the manner of helping eachother find out what you both may be not seeing for yourselves as invidudals. Marriage is partnership, a union, a team. Work together as one through communication...clear communication. Not this "mind trick" type mentality. That is a single-life, dating mentality...not one that works in the marriage unit.

Answer 7

as men we deal with thing in different ways. I still don't understand why women just break out in to crying at times. My wife wants what she wants no matter what the cost and when I don't give in to her I am insensitive jerk.

Answer 8

Nope, he was insensitive before you married him too, you just wanted to be married so you swept it under the rug and/or you convinced yourself that being married would 'change' him.

Answer 9

I don't think so, depends on the guy. If you treat him like s*it then he may turn into a jerk. I totally believe if you bother to make a commitment to each other, get married and promise to stay together...you both need to do the best you can to make each other happy and to feel loved.

Answer 10

I wouldn't say insensitive, they just get set in their own ways and most men don't show emotions anyway. We women have to learn to read these damn men thats all.