I like this boy but he has a girlfriend...do you think he wants me?

Question

So there is this boy who is always asking everyone about me. He told my friend the other day that he liked me, but that I didnt like him back. He's wrong though, i do. He hugs me all the dang time and he tells my friends thats just so he can have a reason to hold me. He comes up behind me and covers my eyes and says guess who just i will grab his hands. He even picks me up and twirls me or walks me to my next class. He tells me i look cute and is always caring how i feel. (if im sad he's sad) He said "hed like to be able to talk to me more...but you dont get everything you want in life." (Is that some sort of code for I want you...and know i cant have you?) I dont know what i should do. I wish he didnt have a girlfriend because it seems like if he actually liked her more then he liked me, he wouldn't act like this with me. What should i do? Tell him i like him? :\

Answer 1

Well if he sincerely liked you he would lose his current gf. However, there are so many people like this that hang on to someone until a better one comes along as they don't want to be alone.

Maybe just start by being friends with him and hopefully he will drop his old gf and make you his new one!

Answer 2

wow well i think you really shouldn't get in between because if your blind you will see what he's doing he wants his girlfriend and you on the side he may flirt and say your cute but he can be playing you i'm not trying to be mean but he has a girlfriend and that's wrong for her imagine if you were his gf and he was hanging on another girl you wouldn't like it if he likes you he wouldn't be with his gf he will be with you don't waste your time on guys like that they only hurt you more in the end

Answer 3

Just enjoy the flirting and let that be all there is to it.

He has a girlfriend. If you took him away from her, then YOU would have a boyfriend who plays around with other girls.

Is that what you really want?

Are you naive enough to think that, if he had you instead of her, he would suddenly be the type who never messes around with other girls?

Answer 4

I think he likes you, but if he really felt strongly enough he would break up with his girlfriend. Not necessarily to be with you but because he isn't being fair to her. Does he want you both? Maybe. Is he waiting to see if something pans out between the two of you before he breaks up with his girlfriend? Maybe. He needs to be strong and do what is right if he wants to be with you, right?

Answer 5

he sounds like a cheater to me. if he likes you, he would of left his gf already. he is trying to bag you both or ascertain that you like him so he can jump boat real quick. see the thing is, this is going to happen to you and your heart will be broken later down the line. you have to ask yourself whether this event and his behavior is acceptable? but then again, kids these days can't even think one step ahead. get to the point and go screw him. pay your dues for being stupid.

Answer 6

Tell him to stop touching you and twirling you around. It isn't fair to his girlfriend. Any guy that would treat another girl like that, when he is with someone else isn't a guy you want to be with.

If you date him, he would do it to another girl while you watched.

Answer 7

Well, you gotta think about the girlfriend. How would you feel if you were in her shoes. Plus you don't want to be second best.

Answer 8

He has self-esteem issues...he's only stringing you along so he can have his cake and eat it too...he has his girlfirend and you on the side....when one isn't givng him what he wants, he just goes to the other......don't flirt with him or anything unti lhe figures out what he wants....

Answer 9

is his girlfriend hot?
you should get together and have a threesome with them
Do it, it's a BLAST !!!
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