i think my wife is cheating on me she always goes out n has recently joined a gym but i think thats this is just an excuse to go out.. we used to b so close but shes just ignoring me lately' do u think im just paranoid??
2006-08-27 06:58:18 · 19 answers · asked by steve k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe you should take her out to dinner one night and make it romantic. Do some thing sweet for her and show her tht you care. And I think your just being paranoid.
2006-08-27 07:01:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not say how old you are nor how long you have been married. It could be completely innocent, she is allowed to have a life of her own and to take a pride in her appearance. The best thing you can do is talk to her and tell her how you feel and ask her is there is someone else, or if there is anything else wrong. Remember to keep calm and do not shout at her and you will get her to confide in you. Good luck
2006-08-27 14:06:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you join the Jim with her this way you can spend more time with her and at the same time put her on the the spot if she says no to you going to the Jim with her then you have the opunitey to ask her why put her on the spot or you could just try following her to find out if she is having an afair but in a relationship you should really trust her from a womans point ov veiw if it was my mam i would follow him then least you know
2006-08-27 14:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by cheryl b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason your feeling this way and I don' think its because she is going to the gym or going out. We perveive and get intuitions when things are not right, maybe something is going awry. You need to sit her down and talk to her, tell her it might be nothing but this is how you feel. Take it from there..Good Luck!
2006-08-27 14:56:22 · answer #4 · answered by Kit Katt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're being paranoid. Most marriage end with someone cheating. Best thing to do is ask her and watch her eyes. If she looks at your eyes and say no, believe her. If she says no and looks somewhere else, get a lawyer.
2006-08-27 14:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by Texan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to sit down and talk to her, and although it may hurt you a lot to find out that she may be having an affair- I think you'd appreciate it more if you knew then you would know where you stand- it may be something totally different like she has decided she wants to get fit and not just sit around the house all day ( i did this this year as I was bored of doing nothing) so it maybe something totally different- you really need to speak to her though!!!
2006-08-27 14:02:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
how about talking to her fine out whats going on ..maybe shes going through something ,,think about what your realtionships been like ..have you payed anough attention to her needs has she yours ,,sometimes we think things are going well but it maybe a mask of something other ,,talk with her openely tell her you miss her ..maybe she is going to the gym to make herself feel better ..support that she wants to get fit or healthy maybe ask if you can be involved with that ,,good luck
2006-08-27 14:05:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just has a social life! jeez why do men want a woman to stay at home all the time?! she was an individual before you guys met. she's just rediscovering herself.
however if its really bothering you talk to her.
2006-08-27 14:03:29 · answer #8 · answered by tjstarbe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's having a midlife crisis, go to the gym with her.
2006-08-27 14:00:30 · answer #9 · answered by Answers1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk. The two of you. Be honest with one another and if necessary, seek counselling.
Good luck.
2006-08-27 15:35:03 · answer #10 · answered by Sally J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋