i love my boyfriend very much we have been together 2 and half years and we have got a beautiful together and thee other childre between us he doesnt seem to want me anymore i have asked him to be frank i have asked him what he feels for me and he says he loves me very much but he has never got any time for me
2006-08-27 06:26:41 · 4 answers · asked by rachel551685 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
this is a hard one because you obviously still love him.. but you both cant carry on like you are.. you need to get his attention and tell him that either you need to talk and get things that are bothering him out in the open or that you need to split up cos you cant carry on like that.. it is soul destroying.. ask him why he loves you but doesnt want to spend any time with you.. its not good atmosphere for kids to be in if theres lots of arguing.. it is better to have two happy parents living apart than 2 miserable ones living together.. i know its hard for you but if its not working out then maybe its time to start a fresh part of your life.. he is not the only man in the world although it seems he is at the moment.. do you want to stay with someone that makes you miserable or start again and find love with someone??
2006-08-27 23:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by pankypaxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men lie because it is easier than telling the truth. It isn't done to hurt you, it is done to ease their path.
You can try and persuade him to go to counselling because it would be silly to just give up without trying; but it does sound like the writing is on the wall.
If I am right, I am so sorry for you.This is one time when I would
rather be wrong but experience and age say that I am right.
2006-08-27 13:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by Christine H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, love is probably not the problem, then. Ask him what's bothering him, is he working long hours? That could be stressing him out.
2006-08-27 13:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by valiumgodmother 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes got another
2006-08-27 13:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋