I just filled out an online checklist to find out if I am cheating on my wife or not and it turns out that I am. I didn't know this and now I'm wondering, should I tell her?
http://www.health24.com/sex/SexEtc/1253-2427-2428-2453-2452,119.asp
2006-08-27 06:24:21 · 13 answers · asked by eat 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. When you find out she's cheating on you, you'll feel justified.
2006-08-27 06:31:10 · answer #1 · answered by rrbowker2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL .....you had to fill out a checklist to find out if you're cheating on your wife?? Man you got issues!! Wake up and start paying attention to her wife and loving her, instead of spending that time fooling around with stuff outside of your marriage. And be careful what you tell her. The word "Cheating" puts in the mind sleeping with another woman. If thats not what you did, telling her you cheated may give her the impression that you did, which can be disastrous!! That doesn't seem to be what you did, or you wouldn't need a checklist to tell you that. Maybe the checklist isn't accurate either, and you're stressing 4 no reason. Get someone close to talk to, cause you're still clueless on some stuff
2006-08-27 13:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by LoneWolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to tell you for one how thankful I am that you posted the site that you took the test.
It has a lot of information that I needed to read, you don't know just how helpful you were in my time of need.
On the note that you just found out that you cheated on your wife, well If you seriously did cheat then if you plan on having this relationship work between you and your wife you need to talk to one another, you also should show her the test you took and let her see for herself.
On the other hand if you answered those questions honestly and you know that you haven't cheated on her then you can surely realize that the test doesn't know everything and all curcumstances involved of those questions.
Good luck
2006-08-27 14:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by Not a Daddys Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not size up what you do by a stinking quiz on the internet. Talk about a lousy way to see if you are getting things right in your life. Instead, look the the Word, the Bible. For in the book of Matthew it says:
Matthew 5:28 "But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart."
If you have done this, then you must repent. Period. If you have looked lustfully upon another women in real life, in a magazine, in just fleeting thoughts of being with another woman...it is all conisdered adulterly in the Lord's eyes. Now if you have not done this, then what are you worried about?
Luke 21:14: "But make up your mind not to worry beforehand how you will defend yourselves."
Always size yourself up against the Word of God, for that is where truth lies. The world, the internet, the crap that is on the bathroom walls...means nothing. Go to the only source worth its weight in value.
2006-08-27 16:25:21 · answer #4 · answered by Bible Trekker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking emotionally cheating? If that's the case then no, don't say anything to her about it and stop doing it. If I found out that my bf was confiding in another woman then I'd be very upset and wanna know why he thought he had to go to someone else. If you tell her, then, she may begin to wonder what else you've not told her.
2006-08-27 14:13:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need a test to find out if you are cheating on your wife you are the lamest dude I have ever met. I guess you would print the results or something.
By the way-- I passed with flying colors.
2006-08-27 13:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by Crossroads Keeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I hope it was good for you. Do you even remember it? Sometimes, somethings like "I'm cheating on you." are just better left unsaid. However if it is true and you have had relationships outside your marriage, you should be open and honest about it. Good luck in the future.
2006-08-27 13:30:50 · answer #7 · answered by Bonnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously the survey has a different definition of cheating than you do. the question is, do you think ur wife would consider it cheating? if not then why bother opening that can of worms.
2006-08-27 13:54:09 · answer #8 · answered by E O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How in the hell do you not know that you are cheating? God, do your wife a favor tell her so she has the option of NOT SLEEPING WITH YOU ANYMORE BEFORE SHE CATCHES SOMETHING.
2006-08-27 14:06:12 · answer #9 · answered by NickyO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i took ur test 2 and im boderline wow
2006-08-27 13:31:03 · answer #10 · answered by canibus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋