time line and if u pass that time line u get to hear
(some words )from ur parents.so i am ingaged to be married and every time i go out with him i have to set a timeline and if i pass this time line i start to get afraid of what they will say when i go home and it is making my life like hell with him cause sometimes when i am with him and in the time where i should be having the time of my life and injoing every mement of it i am not cause i m worred of what they r going to say so sometime when i am with him times run fast u knew so an hour which they put for us is not enough,so now if i was lat and he wanted to kiss me,yes i love it but i cant seem to have my mind on it cause i am always afraid of wht is going to happen at home and now he thinks that i am hiding something from him cause he doesnt feel that i am happy with him.but i cant tell him cause i dont want him to hait my parents.plz tell me what to do .is this normal what i am going throught or there is something else
2006-08-27 05:52:43 · 4 answers · asked by fragilheart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i live in muslem country and i am a girl and i cant have a house of of my own cause we dont have this kind of things.and what i just toled u happened today and now he issad cause he thinks that there is something i am not telling him so what do i tell him to make him feel better?
2006-08-27 06:24:13 · update #1
Get your own apartment; that way your parents can't tell you what to do. If you don't have a job that earns enough money for you to live on your own and support yourself, you aren't ready to get married anyway. Don't let yourself be stuck in a marriage because you can't afford to live on your own.
You shouldn't get married unless you have lived on your own first, anyway. Otherwise you go from being dependent on your parents to being dependent on your husband.
The customs and rules of people like your parents won't stop until YOU stop following them.
2006-08-27 05:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by mollyneville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first, where in the blue hell are you from, that you can only go out for an hour with this guy? and second, forget what your parents think, if your over 18 you do what feels right from the heart! and thrid if he already has a feeling your not being straight with him,then e-mail me ill fix you up.
2006-08-27 12:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your fiance is also Muslim, he should understand. If he's not, explain the customs to him - if he's going to be mad at your parents for that, you're probably in for a lot more trouble down the road.
2006-08-27 13:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by Judy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you from west virginia?
2006-08-27 12:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋