he keeps on dissing people and making mean comments. my friend and i always defend ourselfs and sometimes make him shut up aswell. but i'd like to have some accurate and intelligent things to say that he will sip it right away...ideas? very greatful!!!
2006-08-27 04:32:28 · 13 answers · asked by sabinaauchi 2 in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
things he says or does:
he looks at the worst thing of a person and makes a mean comment for example pimples and so on... or he keeps on bugging a person by saying "hey sweety" and grinning like he doesnt have a care in the world. thanks for all ur help
2006-08-27 04:41:40 · update #1
Sabina, most bullies are cowards , who have been bullied in their past, perhaps this boy was bullied at home by his parents of siblings.
I don't believe that ignoring him will make the problem go away. You have to nip it in the bud by confronting him. he will respect you more.
Next time he makes a sarcastic or nasty comment just say in a very loud voice...
."Look I know it makes you feel big to pick on other people or put others down because of your own insecurity and how insignificant you feel inside. But picking on others does not make you look tough, it shows what a weak little guy you real are. You're just a silly little insecure boy seeking attention, and it does not work. So grow up, you're just a weak snivelling little s....t"
That should shut him up, and stop him in his tracks. He will realise you have him sussed and won't pick on you again.
Bullies are always cowards who've been bullied themselves. Ignoring them will not help. Bullying is rife in the work place, in the army the policeforce, it's institutionalised and it's damaging, it kills productivity when bad management fail to deal with it.
Bullies always have to be tackled, confronted, challenged. dealt with, embarrased, not ignored. So go for it. Practise it at home in your loudest voice and let him have it next time he picks on you or your friends.
2006-08-27 04:45:58 · answer #1 · answered by Carrie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Consider the source and ignore him. Peer pressure to conform is one of the most effective tools you can use. This may work right away or you may need more help.
If his comments are disruptive to your learning, speak to your teacher. If the teacher is ineffective in dealing with him, get your parents involved. IF they are unable to assist the teacher then get the administration involved. Good luck.
2006-08-27 04:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by bortiepie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are people like this all over the world. You need to develop a thick skin and ignore him. Consider it training for the real world. If you don not let him "get to you" then you are making him worthless, because that's all he has, making others feel bad.
2006-08-27 04:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to provide some of his characteristics that can be exploited (i.e. what does he look like, how are his grades, has he been humiliated in a public setting, has he had any girlfriends, what does he wear, etc...) Put up another question with additional detail and I'll give you some comebacks that should shut him up for good.
2006-08-27 04:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by Irish Eyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you seek advice from him by using walking as much as him and stating a communique. ask a query or invite him sonewhere to consume. recover from your self, its no longer that difficult to communicate to somebody and theres no reason to be shy. be your self, dont be so apprehensive approximately what he thinks of you. the extra constructive you act around him the better itll be to get a communique began and save it going. hell experience extra delicate around you using fact hell experience how comfortable you're
2016-09-30 01:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him!
This guy is looking for attention and a reaction. If he speaks and no one listens or even acknowledge his comments, he will stop. Sounds cliche, but try ignoring him and pretend he is not around. Even if he says horrible, funny things--ignore him.
2006-08-27 04:36:04 · answer #6 · answered by think4yorself 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Say 'that he was God's greatest miscreation after Satan'
'He must be very insecure to attempt making himself feel better by insulting other people'
2006-08-27 04:38:20 · answer #7 · answered by Shahbaaz Ali K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well,you've received this answer already,but I'm going to go ahead and say it again:Just ignore him.Eventually he will go away.However,if his bullying rises to the level of threatenings,you should tell the principal,or maybe even the authorities.
2006-08-27 04:40:13 · answer #8 · answered by That one guy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not big and it's not cleaver, but I find calling someone a Cock Mouth usually works!!!!!
2006-08-27 04:40:24 · answer #9 · answered by st_john_gumby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ignore him......he does that to get attention cause hes insecure about something....that or just sink to his level....its a shame that scum like him cant be reasoned with
2006-08-27 04:36:19 · answer #10 · answered by insaneindamainframe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋