I have been best friends with him for a long time and he got with my best gril friend but she messed him around and they finished and then i told him i liked him and he told me he liked me back but it was awkward because we didnt want to hurt her or i didnt want to stap my best friend in the back so we left it and then he found someone else and now my girl best friend realises she likes him so she told him and he and his girlfriend broke up and i just love him so much i cant stop thinking about him but i dont want to tell him or her because i dont want to interfere with them if they want to be happy together if they do ever work out but he always calls me his girl and i am so confused i cant stop thinking about him i think i love him what do i do?
2006-08-27 04:24:42 · 9 answers · asked by Alex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
steer clear of this man. he seems confused, and at some level, wants to play safe by having back ups (in this case, that could be you!). when confusion arises in your life, and screws your mind up, it is better to clear it out by talking about it, rather than keeping it all to yourself and letting others do as they please with your emotions. if i were you, i'd speak to all those involved here, and tell them why i feel the way i feel. if they do not see my point of view, well, they are not good enough friends. if they understand me, but have a different opinion about the whole situation, i'd respect that and take a decision accordingly.
2006-08-27 04:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you r a great friend to think of there happyness first but you cant change his mind if he comes to his sences and sees there is a girl who has loved him for so long but he was blind to i the will come to u if not and his and you girl best friend break up then u should deffinatly tell him everything but dont interfear w/ there relashonship
2006-08-27 11:31:40 · answer #2 · answered by tiny&proud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Conjugal Love? just dump the whole lot and go find a new bf and gf.
2006-08-27 11:28:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay. stop, take a breath, and go read what you just wrote. it sounds a little frantic and uncontrolled. maybe you need to go talk to a counselor about this, to help you put things into perspective.
2006-08-27 11:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by joe friday's grrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, NOBODY likes DRAMA!!! Except for those losers who don't have jobs and watch TV during the day, but anyhow....YOU NEED to get NEW FRIENDS!
2006-08-27 11:27:56 · answer #5 · answered by sportznut05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never know if you don't confess to him. then you will know for sure if he is or he isn't and then you can go on from there at least you will always know you tried..... could work in your favor... Good luck.
2006-08-27 11:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like something jerry springer would have on his show.... maybe you should give him a call =P
2006-08-27 11:33:04 · answer #7 · answered by mattnv29 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL. ATLEAST HE'LL KNOW WHAT YOU FEEL AND GIVE HIM THE OPPORTUNITY TO DECIDE WHO HE WANTS TO BE WITH YOU OR YOUR FRIEND GOOD LUCK TO YOU.
2006-08-27 11:29:43 · answer #8 · answered by hazeleyedbandit3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait or find someone that has not been involved with your friend.
2006-08-27 11:28:58 · answer #9 · answered by Stacey b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋