2006-08-27 03:58:42 · 14 answers · asked by Joe d 1 in Dining Out ➔ France ➔ Nice
have you tried taking her parents to dine out?
2006-08-27 08:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to ask why you want to be with her? I used to 16 F, with an 18 M, It lasted about 3 months. It ended with a babe in my belly and a big hole in my heart. I also had to give up my son, I was 16, no job skills, no job opportunities, with no financial support, no family backing, nothing. I was on the streets and pregnate at 16. At 18 it's not love, it's lust and hormones. You don't know how her family will react if she should become pregnate, I didn't , and it was MY family! All I can say if you care about her, leave her alone until she's completely legal any ways. Let her be a kid while she is one. If you both still feel the same way in two years instead of two months, you'll know you have something. (You'll also earn the parents respect by respecting their wishes. Let them know you love (?) and care for her, and that you will respect their wishes until she is older. In the mean time, get the best job you can, and hold it. It will also show them you're stable, mature, dependable, and able to take care of their daughter when the time comes. Then what will be left for them to complain about?)
2006-08-27 12:27:27 · answer #2 · answered by vspaulo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about how much you have changed since you were 16. When she is 18, will she think the same way about you? I don't think so. It is best you find someone your own age. Or you could see her behind her parents' backs, but that will only give you headaches. You'd go out clubbing with your mates and she'll get angry. Guys at her school will hit on her and you'll get angry. She'll promise to see you one day after school, but will stand you up because her dad suspects. And so much more trouble. If you have a job you could coherce her to run away with you, but then she'll despise you for taking away her family.
Be her friend and live your life- when she is older it might work. Let her finish high school, go to college and do her thing. Then you could start a serious relationship. Whatever you do, do not take away her virginity to prove her love- that's just egoistical!
2006-08-27 11:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by canguroargentino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is tough...be her friend...and show her despite the disagreeing parents that you can still care for her. If you really love her,a few more months to try to win her parents over isn't so much. How about trying to offer her parents the opportunity to see her in their home, and maybe they will see you for who you really are instead of the two year difference. If you are in their home, they can be in control. It wont last forever to have to sit with her parents. Earn the trust they don't have now. Hopefully before long they will let you take short trips to the mall and lunch. If you love her it is worth it. Above all. remember you may be a parent someday of a 16 year old daughter!!!! When in their house, if you get to your g/f bedroom, KEEP THE DOOR OPEN!!!! LOL
2006-08-27 12:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure she is 16 years old. maybe she is really 15 years old and if she is her parents can have you locked the f*** up for messing around with her even if it is consensual sex. what does a 18 year old want with a 16 year old girl anyway. her parents don't like you then you better watch out because you can get in big trouble. In NC the age when you can date who you want without parents consent is 17 years old . you are 18 so if you live in NC you better leave her alone. if you are in love with her like you say you can wait until she is 17 to see her.
2006-08-27 13:26:12 · answer #5 · answered by nurse2011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look sweetheart the first thing is once a girl is 16 she can date any age she pleases and her parents can not put the guy in jail listen just try talking things out with her parents and tell them that u want to be with her and make sure they know u are not with her just for sex that u really love her and just want to be with her try taking that way and see what happens in some cases it will work but i wish u the best of luck
2006-08-27 11:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by kimberly_owens92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sucks I know, but I would suggest staying away ...
At 18 the run the risk of her parents sending you to jail.
2006-08-27 11:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by my1215boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you love her right.she loves you right if both these questions are true then read on.make her parents belive in you .proove to them you won't be doing any harm to their daugther mentally or physically .go forward and talk to them.take them for a dinner include your family also your parents will definietly be of help.spend more time with her parents help them out .tell them every thing about you good and bad and explain about the bad things how you plan to rectify it they will definietly let you date their daughter after wards.tell the girl to help you out.if you both are ready dont take or resort to drastic measures the might harm you.so be care ful and go there and win her parents heart.it will be better if she introduces you to her parents and look out for her dad he will be tough for you to convince so generally impress by using gifts for the family.GO GO GO WIN HER PARENTS HEART YOUR LOVE IS WAITING TAKE CARE USE YOUR ABILITIES TO IMPRESS THEM LIKE ACADEMICS,SPORTS,POETRY,MUSIC.MAKE YOURSELF FAMOUS IN A POSITIVE WAY...........well to rigtly say stay with her spend time with her till she is 18 and you can undersatand love better but dont do something nasty with her.
2006-08-27 12:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by vishakh v 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to prove to her parents that you can be responsible for her. Parents can be very strict about those things, You probably will have to have her home by curfew and talk to her parents give um an update. goodluck
2006-08-27 11:05:35 · answer #9 · answered by Ding D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are asking the wrong question in the wrong area,This the dining out category.
2006-08-29 16:43:41 · answer #10 · answered by FELINELOVER 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋