He is only 15 years older than me. That is not a lot, right. Anyway he said that he wants to take me out sometime. But, he said that it was a dating ritual that the girl has to touch the guys thing before they go out cause the guy is spending money on her. Is this a real ritual or is he just pulling my leg? And if I touch his thing how much money does he have to spend on me?
2006-08-27 03:53:11 · 23 answers · asked by clueless clara 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
never heard of it before and i think that he is pulling your leg but don't do something you don't wanna do if he is making you do something you dont want to do then don't do it there are plenty of other guys in the world
2006-08-27 03:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you're 45, he's 30. I love that there's people who answered this and thought you'd said he was 15. lol at that one.
If you don't think the age difference is an issue, don't let it be. However that said, don't go there with him. I'd say he simply wants to take advantage of you by copping a cheap-feel. If you really want to lower yourself to that level, at least charge him a lot of money for the priveledge of having a call-girl as a neighbor because that's what you're turning yourself into if you indulge his little fantasy. I'm sorry to be harsh but that you're considering doing this with him really raises questions.
Ask him why he's still living at home... also if his surname is Bates with a first initial of N, run like hell for the hills...
Clearly this guy had expectations from his dates. Has he not heard of 'no means no'? And why has he been going out with women who are using him - clearly that's the case.
I hate to say it honey, but he's damaged or sick - or both. You shouldn't have to pay for the dinner-grabbing trash he's dated previously. Be his friend if you like but don't be a 'you show me yours and I'll show you mine' kind of friend. He clearly has alot to sort out before he dates again - and don't you be his rebound neighbour.
For all you know he's too cheap to move out of home and wants to move next door - do you really want him living in your house. Also, if the dating doesn't work out, do you really want to have that happen with someone who KNOWS where YOU live???
Good luck and keep away from him... something doesn't smell right about his story and I'd like to think YOU deserve much better!! Start casting your net and eye wider - a better fish will come along!!
Meg
2006-08-27 11:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by ausbabe29_megan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, you can't be serious. If you are fifteen and he is thirty not only is that way too much of an age difference but in most if not all of the US it's illegal. Do not go out with this guy, do not touch any part of his body, do not be alone with him. You should also certainly tell your parents of his suggestive advances he is making towards you. Please be careful! I am 30 and I would NEVER date some 15 years younger nor would I date someone who is 18 and "over age".
2006-08-27 11:01:19 · answer #3 · answered by gottaspider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You REALLY are clueless aren't you?? I believe this a line of crap but just in case, here it goes.
1. Any man who lives with his mother at 30, unless severe extenuating circumstances, is a loser.
2. 15 years older makes him an adult and you a minor. Do I have to tell you more? OK.
3. Screw his tradition, yours should start being not to date losers or hang out with adults old enough to be your father. Tell him he can take his tradition and go to hell or use it on another 30 year old loser living with her mom. Tell him he'll have to do more than spend money on you to get you to touch his dick ~ like hose it down with bleach and penicillan first!
2006-08-27 11:04:59 · answer #4 · answered by Cyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You MUST report him to the local law inforcment and let them wire you an you go get proof. If he is willing to have sex with you at your age he needs help in a bad way. I am not saying there is anything wrong with you and you may be very very pretty but there is something wrong with him. People of age trying to talk a minor into having sex with them needs to be taking off the streets before they rape a really small child. You are close enough to being an adult that you should know that this is wrong.
Please go get help and get him off the streets.
2006-08-27 11:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by Don K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um hello! you arent even of legal age to have sex. this is a man who is almost old enough to be your dady (actually he is) Its called abuse... don't fall for it.
Finding someone your age is a hell of a lot better. And you should tell your parents what he said. He's a molester!!! Can you honestly tell me what a man who has been an adult for 12 years wants with a 15 year old girl? SEX is the only thing I see... and honey... its not worth all of that. Hes bsing you... dont fall for it
2006-08-27 11:01:01 · answer #6 · answered by breathofvitality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Clueless,
A stray cat is cute too but, like a 30 year old who still lives with his mother, you don't want to take it home and feed it. With the cat, it will never leave. With the 30 year old, you become mommy.
2006-08-27 11:11:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd check the sex predator website for your area. This guy is 30 and he's trying to trick you (a fifteen year old minor)into doing something inappropiate. I'd also report him to your mother to make sure if he tries anything, she knows he tried it before. Keep away from him and take care of yourself.
2006-08-27 11:01:25 · answer #8 · answered by Simply Put 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, if he's 30 and "only" 15 years older than you, please PLEASE - stay far away. I know you won't agree with me, but if this guy is saying/doing what you say he is, he is a CHILD MOLESTER, and probably lives at home with mom because he's been in jail for similar crimes in the past.
STAY AWAY. Even cute guys can be pieces of shite.
2006-08-27 11:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by smallweed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u serious yur 15 not 3 u should know he is lying not to mention 30 is old try someone younger
2006-08-27 11:00:52 · answer #10 · answered by asdfghjkl; 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋