frustrated in sex help.?

Question

I cant seem to make things work at home should i move on?

Answer 1

what do you Mean you cant make things work?
you married this person, stay married and make it work

Answer 2

Knowing that sex isn't the whole of a relationship if half the battle. Some day whether because of age or illness. Your sex life could be gone. You need to have a relationship that isn't built on sex. Because once that's gone, then everything is gone. In the meantime.
Believe it or not there is a great book I've seen at Barnes and Nobles. It doesn't read like stereo instructions. It has matching envelopes. One for you, one for her. You read your without the other one.
Example. Hers will say: get all dolled up, your man is going to kidnap you. Go with the flow.
Yours will say: Set up a sitter(If you have children) without her knowing. Whisk her away to a horse drawn carriage ride or a nice dinner out.
There are many of the things in there that don't cost any money or don't require you leaving home.
Talking is the first line of defense. Reading her moods and actions help. What she responds to. If all else fails, counseling. If that doesn't work you can walk away knowing you did every thing you could.

Answer 3

Well, if the only problem in the relationship is sex then you should definatly stay and make it work. No relationship is perfect, and if sex is your biggest problem then I would suggest making it work! When it comes to sexual problems most of them can be fixed with communication. Tell your partner what it is you want, what you like, and ask what your partner would like. This can be a problem as simply or as difficult as the two people involved make it. If you feel you need someone to talk to about it (someone nutral who can't tell the world about your problems because they don't know you) click on my name and then contact and leave me a message. I would be glad to give you some advice the best I can. If there is more to it than just sexual problems then you need to elaborate on your question.

Answer 4

not if you haven't tried 100 percent!!! After being with a person so long you tend to get bored!!! The way to a successful marriage is not giving up!!!! Just add a little spice by maybe visiting the lingerie store and get some bath salts and perfumes!!!! If you haven't tried toys experiment with that you will be surprised what a new sex toy could bring to your sex life!!! Try taking her the places you both use to go when you started dating!!! Fall in love all over again !!! Yall are both the same person just older and wiser!!!!! Stick in there and try harder to work it out!!!! Best wishes!!!

Answer 5

why? don't be a 'runner'. u've got to man-up and deal with the situation before wanting out. U might just end up in the same situation with someone else later on and find out that u're responsible for the problem all along. It wouldn't be a good feeling then. Dialogue helps in understanding every problem. Start talking with your partner, and figure out ways to do this in a way that suits both of you and not just u alone. I figure you'll be okay. xx

Answer 6

First of all, are you married ? Sex is really important, but it's not a reason to leave. Make sex special, more romantic. Use candles, nice music. Do you have kids ? You just don't move on. You should learn to try harder. Your question is really vague, so I hope my advice helps. ~

Answer 7

Try Viagra

Answer 8

Try to work it out.

Answer 9

You should probably consult a marriage counselor.

Answer 10

what do you mean?
sex related or in general?
need more info....