I need some real answer. There's a mess in my mind. Some old adults can help me, please. Is it right or wrong ?
2006-08-27 03:41:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sleeping with someone causes no harm. It's what you do while you're NOT sleeping that's the problem. Why do you have a future husband when you're only 18 ? Do you have a marriage already set up ? Personally, I don't think you're mature enough to have either right now. Why don't you just enjoy your friend without sex for a while, and figure it out for yourself. Good Luck ~
2006-08-27 03:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm far from being an "old adult" but I'm wise enough things. And I say that is a personal choice for you. I mean if you really think you love the guy that much and you are quite positive he isn't pressuring you to do it because "everyone" else is then, you should go right ahead. You are very legal and have that right. Besides whom ever you get married to in the future might not be a virgin either. But I still say only have sex if you think its right and not cuz the guy wants to have sex with you before you graduate or something. That could be the most devasting blow of your life.
2006-08-27 10:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
like i always say it is culture stuff girl!so it depends on ur future husband and let's be realistice ok!if u really love a guy and u r i the age that u or him wil know that it is right thing to do to make love with so it is adult thing,but if u think that sex wil change ur relationship cos it'll be ordinary thing for u or him to just bang bang an dthat is all,i think u should wait untill that u be sure that u really love that persona nd have sex with.u don't have to tell ur husband about who or how many u had sex cos that will make him really know that u'll do ask him the same questions and that wil emberrasse him so u don't worry but be sure about ur love and taht ur ex wil be a speciall thing u have or had no rush u take ur time ok hope really tat helps:).
2006-08-27 10:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by joe m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are at the age where it is your choice. If you truly love the person your with and feel you can do it without regret,but by asking what your future husband will think-tells me the one right now isnt MR.Right.If you dont see yourself with this person for the long haul, are you sure you want to give him something so special to you? I dont think many men would not marry you because you were with someone before. I'm a reformed ho, and It may be easier to give you a list of who I didnt sleep with! but it hasnt barred any marriage proposals. good luck and only do what feel right for you
2006-08-27 10:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by cassiepiehoney 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can but make sure u love him and wont leave you
and no your future husband will not accept u for that
2006-08-27 10:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by crimson r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no sane man would accept that,seriously. and how can u be so sure that at 18, that person is someone you truly love?
2006-08-27 10:44:49 · answer #6 · answered by gweneth lynn paltfeir 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mostly wrong for health and unwanted pregnancy problems.
2006-08-27 12:46:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hop on take a ride, enjoy. I'm 47 just don't yakk it up. !!
2006-08-27 10:45:23 · answer #8 · answered by hnksvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are 18 and you Love this person, why not marry them, and then have sex>"?
2006-08-27 10:45:29 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually its wrong, but today there reallyis no standards or morals, all i wish it was me your wanting to sleep with
2006-08-27 10:44:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋