i'm 11 and i masterbate my boyfriend offered do have sex with me but is masterbating and sex wrong?
2006-08-27 03:02:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
my boyfriend is 2 years older then me.
2006-08-27 03:19:15 · update #1
This is a question you need to be talking to your parents about. You really should be talking to an adult you can trust with sexual questions...if not a parent how about a favorite aunt?
Masturbation is a natural thing. Don't let someone tell you otherwise...that would only cause shame and guilt...not what you need right now....You are really too young to have a BF even if he is only 2 years older.
Sex is for consenting adults who have the maturity to deal with the responsibility that comes with it...be it married or not.
You're better off masterbating than to have sex right now or for several more years to come.
2006-09-01 15:19:36 · answer #1 · answered by rainysnana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masterbation is fine, but sex at 11 years old is not good. Your mind and body aren't capable of understanding and having a good healthy sexual relationship. Tell the boyfriend to check back with you in 5 years.
2006-08-27 10:11:31 · answer #2 · answered by cyndi_035 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should not be having sex unless you're ready to be a parent. Masterbating is a natural thing that all of us have done at some point or another. You don't want to have to tell your parents that you're pregnant at 11 do you?
2006-08-27 10:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be silly save your body for the right guy
your bf must lack respect for you at such a young age
masterbate by all means there is nothing wrong with that
dont let the bf bully you into this and if you are that curious use protection ie femidom or condom :) chances are if you are curious enough your gonna do it anyway
2006-08-27 10:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex! You are only 11 years old. You should wait for many more years before you have sex
2006-08-31 10:54:00 · answer #5 · answered by Annie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is fine to masturbate just keep it private it is a thing you do privately and no one else needs to know about it, not even your boyfriend!
You are really too young to have sex, believe me you wouldn't enjoy it because you are so young.
It wouldn't feel as nice as when you masturbate, it could hurt you and your boyfriend might dump you if you have sex with him because he wont want to be with a girl that has sex because he might think if you have sex with him you might have had sex with someone else or will do. In other words he would think of you as easy.
If you do decide to make sure he wears a condom.
Have you spoken to your mum or dad about contraception i.e. the pill?
2006-09-01 13:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by amzie o 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
According to the bible, masturbation is wrong but for your age I believe you are better off masturbating than having sex. The last thing you want is to get pregnant at 11 or 12 years old.
2006-09-01 05:15:14 · answer #7 · answered by donovan49_e71 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG most people START sex when they are married, you are way to young!!!! And dump your boyfriend for saying if you want to, you should know your too young. Plus most parents don't even let you have a boyfriend untill you 13 or 14, so ya sex is wayyyyyyyyyyyy out of the question!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-01 21:01:52 · answer #8 · answered by nirvana 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you're too young even for a boyfriend. wait until marriage to have sex.
2006-09-02 12:15:34 · answer #9 · answered by Cina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way should you be having sex at 11!
2006-09-02 09:54:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋