i have got less marks in my exam which i never experienced before.i have to show the exam to my mother. my mother with get raged if she sees it. anyways i have to show. she doesnt understand that i have shifted to a new school and i didnt know that there is so much competetion there. can anyone plz tell me how should i start wen i have to show the papers to my mother?anyone having beter ideas how to face that time?plz help i have to face it in 3 hours thank u
2006-08-27 03:02:09 · 5 answers · asked by friendly to u 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
not so bad marks i.e. 70.5/90 but for me its fail. yes my mother doesnt listen to me at this type of time plz help and i have few more papers to go.any more suggestions?
2006-08-27 03:17:31 · update #1
i am a 12 year old and my mother's tough!
2006-08-27 03:22:37 · update #2
Your mother has unrealistic standards (you say 70/90 is "a fail for you"--but not for others, I take it) AND, by the sounds, an abusive temper(if you are that scared of facing her, over something so small, your mother probably has a problem....not to judge her,but that is fairly likely). This is not your fault, and you certainly cannot control it.So try to remind yourself that it is not your fault, as you weather the inevitable. Also remind yourself that your self-worth is not measured in marks. And that the mark you got, is, in any case a decent effort.It's hard growing up with that sort of pressure--try to find as much re-inforcement for a more sane attitude as you can find.Life is short, and it is shorter when we are too serious and hard on ourselves!! Good luck and bless:)
2006-08-27 03:32:42 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh gosh, do I remember my bad marks.
You have to meet this head on as as soon as possible. Go now and give the paper to Mom. Let her look at it, do a rage, if she's inclined to, but stand and let her. Be honest with her about why you feel you got this low mark. Don't whine and cry about how unfair your life is and how demanding everyone is, just lay your feelings about your new school on the table so she can see what your going through. Trust me the longer you let this go the harder it's going to be on you. Your Mom is going to do what she's going to do, but the longer you put it off your just making your torture of the situation longer. Go!!!!!
2006-08-27 03:13:39 · answer #2 · answered by sassywv 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her the same things you just told us. before you show her your grades, sit her down and calmly explain to her all the difficulties you've been experiencing. you should also come up with a plan of how you're going to change things. for example, are you going to speak with your teachers, get a tutor, etc. etc. you could then apologize and let her know she is dissapointed in you, and that you are also dissapointed in yourself, but that you will need her support to move forward.
good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-27 03:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to her as you did here. Tell her that you are going to do better now that you understand the new schools way of teaching.
Ask her to be understanding and supportive of the new school, and it wasn't your idea to have to move to a new school. (Was it?)
Good Luck
2006-08-27 03:14:12 · answer #4 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try writing an honest note and attach it to marks sheet.
eNJoy
2006-08-27 03:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by vinod s 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋