im a 20 yo guy that has had a crush on my mate but ive started to fall for him, the reason for this is we always joke around (act gay n stuff) but i treat it as a joke and he has been taking it the such a point where he looks gayer than i do eg publically touching me &hugs ect the other day he even asked me if i wanted to give him head and sleep with him witch he has done on many occasions...i didn't even have to think about for one second but he doesnt know that im bi , i told him i would but havnt done anything as i dont know if he is joking or not. i dont know what the hell to do about him. please help me someone. how can i tell if he is serious?
2006-08-27 02:56:00 · 14 answers · asked by glamorous_boi 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
He is serious, but could be nervous. Next time he asks you to give him head , go down on your knees and tell him to pull it out, if he does then you know, if he tells you to pull it out for him, go for it, happy happy
2006-08-27 04:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by Finally home 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Haven't you ever told that the curiosity killed the cat??. Be careful with your friends!, who knows! Maybe he's one too. Because I don't think that straight guys like doing that kind of things all the time...and by the way I started joking, and watch me now!!.
2006-08-27 14:04:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and just tell him that when he jokes like that you have no clue where he is coming from, so you don't know how to react. You don't have to give yourself up, you just have to tell him that the messages he's sending you are confusing, and since he's a good friend, you'd like to clear things up.
See how that goes.
P.S. (don't use your teeth)
2006-08-27 13:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like what Pythagorean said i think that is sound advise. And going from his reaction if its good continue if bad back off. Thats all there is to it.
2006-08-27 11:32:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another way is to just say hey here let me give you a massage. work on his back tell him to flip.. then massage his legs. wham, bam, erection= at least bi. But I like pyth advice also!
2006-08-27 13:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by college student 1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you guys are playing around, grab his package, don't let go, and then gauge his reaction. Good luck!
2006-08-27 10:01:18 · answer #6 · answered by Pythagorean 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grab a handful and he'll get the message
2006-08-27 11:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by hnksvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cood b gay or just foolin' around yer, mate!! or maybe u had given him the wrong impression...maybe... y dont u try out testin' or tease him, hence u will no....if u mention out to him that u r bi....case closed...
2006-08-27 11:06:35 · answer #8 · answered by funkyscorpion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the next time he askes you to give him head, open your fly, and say "after you"...then you'll know...
2006-08-27 10:54:07 · answer #9 · answered by Wil B 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ask him. "would you kiss a friend?"
if he says yes, challenge him.
depending of how he does it, you will know his true feelings^-^
2006-08-27 10:06:08 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋