Am married from 2 weeks & she thinks that breaking her hymen would hurt her a lot ,?so is there any medicine ?

Question

Is There Any medicine that can help to make her not feel any pain , like local ansethia medicine ?

Is There Any medicine that can help to make her not feel any pain , like local ansethia medicine ? U Know We do oral sex we also reach orgasm , but without penetration ,only by rubbing because she is afraid from penetration .

Answer 1

have her bite of piece of wood or a towel - project the pain away and she should be fine

Answer 2

Sex does hurt for the first couple of times, and even years later, it sometimes hurts. Think about it this way, try to stick your pinkie into a baloon that has never been blown up. It's tight and it streches, right? Well, it will hurt, and it's supposed to hurt...God's punishment for eve being all dumb and junk. You should be proud to marry a virgin, most of us have sex for the first time and regret it because the guy turns out to be a loser and it should have been saved for someone special.
Let her know that the last thing you would ever want to do is hurt her, and maybe you could make it easier on her by using your fingers first, on several different occasions prior to the big one.
Start with one, then go to 2, but don't try 3, it'll hurt.
When she gets sick of that action, she'll be more prepared for what's to come. She is just scaired, and I don't blame her, but it is a blessing to give something so special to the one you truely love. And let her know that you'll be gentle, and the pain will not last long, it gets MUCH better!

P.S. She may have a reaction to latex, and sometimes the lube they put on them burns. So start without anything, and if pregnancy is an issue, start without, and then put one on well before you're "ready"

Answer 3

Breaking the hymen during the first sexual encounter is somewhat of an myth. It often breaks without any form of penetration and with vigerous activity such as running. This usually happens sometime during childhood or adolescence without the person even knowing.

Answer 4

its surley time to talk her to it. i mean ur married now. i agree with the gurl sayin have some wine first. that will make u both tipsy and she wont worry bout the pain. its not pain that she cant handle either. theres something goin in her so of course she'll feel somethin but its sex. explain to her that after a few minutes it wont hurt anymore since her muscle is stretched so it goes in and out very easy and liquids comin out from her vagina will make it easier too

Answer 5

She is isn't worried about the pain. She is having anxiety about sex. Its mental not physcial. If she waited until after marriage, then she feels she will not live up to your expectations and she will be bad in bed. Make it all about her without putting pressure on her.

Answer 6

Sex

Answer 7

if shes afraid its going to hurt. start out small. try inserting your finger, one at a time. use plenty of lube. also, are you sure her hymen is still intact? cause alot of women break theirs with out having sex. by bike riding, horseback riding, sports, using a tampon./... when u do have sex, use plenty of lube, try letting her be on top. so she can control. i hope this helped.

Answer 8

best thing is to just *git er done* so to speak.. I wouldn't be putting anything up there medicine wise unless the doctor gave it b/c you could hurt yourself..

Answer 9

Just get it done. That way way when she want to have sex again it wouldn't hurt. Just do it.

Answer 10

it doesn't hurt much, you don't need any medicine. a lubricant like ky jelly will help ease any discomfort, and making sure she is ready.