how can i get controlled on it ,i prefer tips without pills or tablets, might these pills have sideeffects
2006-08-27 02:18:30 · 13 answers · asked by rizwan l 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Try slowing it down a little. Look after your girlfriend/wife first. Also, what about a little foreplay??? Then look after yourself. That will help.
2006-08-27 02:23:24 · answer #1 · answered by winona e 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Teach yourself the Method of Mutiple Orgasm. Women love this technique. I cant hold my first one for more then 30 sec. unless im drunk, but i trained myself to stay solid and to keep going after i pop one. Oh, also, Masturbate before sex. If you know someone is coming over or something is about to happen soon, pop off that first one.
2006-08-27 09:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by Chris D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is probably more related to your mind than the plumbing. Do you get nervous during sex? Are you concerned with your performance? These things can cause you to become anxious and launch the rocket too fast.
I used to be a PE, but with my current partner I'm not, because she is the one that is "right" for me. We have a great sex life, and its fun and no pressure. I even had told her about my "problem" in the past, but for me, just doing that (telling her) let the pressure off of me.
Some tips to try, though:
1. Tell your girlfriend/lover/spouse/etc. about your condition. If she doesn't respond positively to wanting to help you (ie, does she honestly care about you) then find a new partner - SERIOUSLY (my ex-wife, hence the "ex", really didn't want to help me)
2. Depending on how severe a case of PE you have, just practice penetrating her, with no thrusting. Get used to the feeling of being inside of her.
3. If the penetration is no problem, then start out by thrusting slowly. If you feel yourself reaching the "point of no return." slow down, and just relax.
4. If you find yourself constantly pushing the "point of no return" without much thrusting, pull out for a while, give her oral sex, try a different position, mix it up for a while, caress her body, etc. This allows you to build up stimulation, and then relax for a while, teaching your body that it doesn't have to come so quickly.
5. Do this "start-stop" technique a few times, and work up the number of repetitions of it with subsequent lovemaking sessions. Each time, tell yourself that "it is OK to come" this next repetition, and then go for it and enjoy your orgasm.
6. You can also try the classic techniques such as the "squeeze" technique, etc. but I've found that by just relaxing and being with a caring partner seemed to work for me.
A great way to use the "start-stop" technique in actual lovemaking is to penetrate her in a position, beging thrusting, and if you feel yourself reaching the "point of no return," just pull out, and switch positions, give her oral sex, etc. The mere action of stopping the constant stimulation will give you enough time to get yourself back into control, and also works great for your sex life, as you can "mix it up" and try new positions, etc. So everyone wins!!!
Most importantly is the communication/emotional link with your partner. PE is quite seriously mostly in your head. As humans, we are all too concerened with "results," but if you view it as "stopping to smell the roses" along the journey, you will have a much easier time. Don't focus so much on your orgasm, but focus on the great feeling of merely being inside of her and being with her. Also, try having sex with her and don't come. Stop before coming, and just enjoy the ride. This will teach you that the journey along the way is more important than the destination.
Good Luck!!!
2006-08-27 10:15:39 · answer #3 · answered by TallMountainGuy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
masturbation before sexual activity is a good method to reduce this occurance. You need to not focus on it as a premature ejaculatioon but approach it as a multiple orgasmic opportunity.
2006-08-27 09:40:23 · answer #4 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try SOMATOMAX. Honest to goodness, when I'm using SOMATOMAX I can last for hours. It gives me a euphoric type of feeling. My wife uses it too. It completely eliminates any inhibitions we may have too...
2006-08-27 11:11:54 · answer #5 · answered by RobsVision 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
viagra pill claims to solve the prob.
no side effects
2006-08-27 10:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by theking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the first guy said
2006-08-27 09:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by al 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
learn to relax and to control it. It takes time.
2006-08-27 11:46:50 · answer #8 · answered by zodiaccyber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I beleive its better to check with your doctor, he/she may give you an alternative solution to your question.
2006-08-27 09:23:05 · answer #9 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Use a desensitizing cream.
2006-08-27 09:26:23 · answer #10 · answered by Frank 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋