am i still a virgin if iv'e played with myself?

Question

well...i haven't had sex bfore but iv'e played with myself by slide fingers through my vagina...which i have now broke hymen and i have bled..am i still a virgin?
and will i still be as tight as i was bfore ?
could the guy i have sex in the future still feel the tightness in my vagina?
and does Making my vagina more loose help reduce the pain wen i do it for the first time?

Answer 1

The only medical way to tell if a woman is a virgin or not is by the presence of the hymen. Therefore, you are technically (medically speaking) not a virgin, HOWEVER the concept of virginity in a social concept is one based on whether or not you have had sexual intercourse with another human being, which you have not. So, socially speaking, you are a virgin.

The vagina is a muscle with a great ability to expand and contract. It can expand large enough to birth a baby! It contracts tight enough to fit just about any object, however small. However, over time, the vagina can become loose, but you are nowhere near the age where that would be a concern. Experimenting with masturbation before having intercourse can and probably will make your first sexual experience more pleasurable and comfortable. Not only because you've already broken the hymen and gotten that painful part over with, but also because you will know what pleases you, and what feels good, and can relay this to your partner.

Answer 2

You're still a virgin. However fingers are not as thick as a penis and they don't have the same thrusting yet blunt power to stretch the vaginal wall from all sides. So the guy will feel the tightness, even though your hymen broke you might still feel pain and bleed when you do it the first time properly with a guy. There's no need to experiment any further because you might end up with a lot of infections. And the first time that you do decide to do it with someone else, use a condom with lubrication...it not only slides easeir inside, it feels more comfortable and reduces the chances of infections and babies forming.

Answer 3

Virginity is a State of mind

Hymen can be broken due to many causes like horse riding, running,masturbation

and masturbation 1 or2 times will not make ur vagina loose

So don't worry

Answer 4

Darlling. You are virgin as you did not have sex by inserting penis in your vagina. No doubt you have done by sliding your finger in your vagina and broke hymen and also bled, but the virginanity ends when male penis is inserted in your vagina. So please you will give as more pleasure to your b/f as a virgin girl gives. You will also be tight and sexy too.

Answer 5

First of all stop playing with your vagina. Virginity depends on the mental health and not in physical. Remember all the sportswomen who do jogging, long jump, cycling etc. Do you think their hymen is still intact and not torn. Your notion to help your partner by loose vagina is a distortion only

Answer 6

Dear ex-virgin: you're still tight even if you've broken your hymen and deflowered yourself. You'll be needing a male organ introduced inside your vagina for several times till you can accommodate it with ease (depending, of course, on the organ's size). Do not worry, this is normal anxiety before actual intercourse for the first time.

Answer 7

As far as I know that having sex with yourself, does not take away your virginity!!! As far as the tightness in your vagina, I would say that it would depend on how big the guy is that you have sex with. The best sex is what you have with yourself. You don't have to worry about getting pregnant. So, enjoy!!!

Answer 8

you are a plethora of vaginal inqiry. let's see if we can unravel the questions with answers. yes, while technically, you are not a virgin because yer poor maidenhead was ruptured by your autoerotic plunderings, ( which i'm sure was fun as a barrel of munkees, wish i were there)but, since you have not fallen under the thrusting hips of a male counterpart, it could be said when you bang a-bangbangbang fer the first time with a guy that he was yer first. and actually, the state of yer vagina's tightness depends more on yer physical conditioning more than sexcapades. good luck, baby.

Answer 9

IF you playing with around your vagina lob or your top clitoris don't
happen.Also you can a few infare your fingertip in your vagina and still virgin,But if you infare all of your hand,it's feasible you miss your virginally.You can pat your nipple or breast befor masturbation and when orgasm,play your vagina .You can bath with almost cold or tepid and dry your body then with your wet finger pat yuor vagina for satisfact carnality.

Answer 10

For lesbians, this is probably their idea of losing virginity. But since you are straight, your virginity is still intact even if your hymen isnt. A guy's penis will take your virginity